I felt relieved when my wife and I both wrote it back in 1993. I wrote it to one elder I respected and two I didn't. One was a life long friend. They were going to df me anyway. They made up their mind and I knew it. I'm not good at repenting.
Slidin, I understand your point but when your born in, sometimes it's important to make your point with people you've spent your whole life with and once considered a good friend.