I was sexually, emotionally, and physically abused, but I would never even dream of doing that to my own two boys, because (1) they're all I have, (2) it's illegal (duh), (3) and children don't know any better--so why are you severely punishing them for something they don't know any better about?
Yes, I have mildly spanked them (a couple of taps on the backside) on occasion and may have screamed at them a couple of times, but I've never done anything to them what was done to me up until my 18th b-day.
So I say no, not all abused children turn out to be abusive adults.
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