i dont have any family like bros or mom or dad or anything to tell em for me,my husbands fam is over in usa, and all i have is the kids,so its me whos gota do it but the elder also is real nice and telling him to shuv off is totaly imposible for my mouth to say to his face,
the thing is liek iv said iv told em on many ocassion when at the door that im not ready to come back bla bla and they still come like a week later and say can we call on u and hubby and get things going again tehn il say we busy bla bla and then in end cos they wont take no for answer to get rid of em il say ok next on so and so day,
then that day comes and i have to say im ill im sorry or flipin sumat.
the thing is im still all for some of it and not for most of it so if i disagree wi it whats the point.
but when iv said that to em they say u need building upo to be refreshed on scriptures bla bla.
its wearing me down cos i just want to be left alone nd decided what i want on my own terms when im ready not get pushed in to it then either get dissfelowshiped or go back either way its up to me i should deside not them.
and even thoe i wana send a letter i think why should i play it by there terms and go by there rules sending flipin letters,
but just talking to em at door isnt working one bit.