LisaRose : Yikes! I have a Vietnamese American friend who is in Japan with her husband for six months, he is on a student Visa. She says it's much like you expect from Anime and this kind of thing, everything is so cute and tiny and adorable.
Lisa, that's a perfect description of some things the Japanese call 'netsuke,' which were little button like things used to attach items to clothing, they were often exquisitely ornamental. Do a search and see what you think. Because of that the the points you're friends have observed it's often thought that the Japanese have a knack for making things small and beautiful.
ron rawson: I dunno....almost pedophilic (is that a word?)....at about 3:20 the banner on the bottom of the screen says "love us from top to bottom". Maybe selling Japans version of the worlds oldest profession thru this weird, disturbing video. Cute kids , but man-o-man this is twisted....or maybe it's me. Either way I don't care for it.
Then again, I'm not 25 anymore.
Interesting observation Ron, and thnx for discussing your feelings. I think Japanese (in particular) and East Asian (generally) attitudes to sex do push the boundaries for Americans (in particular) and the Anglosphere (in general).
However, having some experience (after six years of studying Asia) in Japanese cultural attitudes, I do NOT think that there is a specific sexual intent in the video. While the girls may look young, I'd be surprised if they were say 15, much more likely they are around 20. East Asians often look much younger than they are.
And yes, 'pedophilic' does seem to be a word, at least in some usages. But the problem is that there is no universal standard for pedophilia. In the USA, the age of consent is now 18, in 19th century Vermont the age for marriage for a girl was supposed to have been 7.
IF an adult in the USA has sex with a 17 year old partner, its a crime, but here in Australia its not, because the age of consent is 16. Go back a hundred years or so, and the age for getting married was often around 13-14.
So you may be surprised to know that the age of consent in Japan is 13, nationally, though in many provinces, there are additional laws that govern age of consent.
The other cultural factor, is that we are acculturated by Christian attitudes. Galations 5:17 sums it up for us:
"For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do what ever you want."
So sexual discussions and off-key sights often make us feel uncomfortable, but the Japanese have little in their own unique culture that makes them feel uncomfortable over sexual matters. I'm not trying to say that in East Asia/Japan its a sexual free-for-all. Its not like that at all. Its just that they are much more comfortable about sex than we are likely to be.
I think you may have put your finger on the real difference, when you said that you were not 25 anymore (nor am I anymore!). When we were young, silly things were more attractive.
I see this video in much the same classification as a Chinese video I posted some time back. Called 'Little Apple" it takes a swipe at the Bible story of the Apple, at the importation of western attitudes and sexual attitudes generally. For some reason it caught the Chinese imagination and song and dance groups all over China were singing and dancing (public dance groups are very common) 'Little Apple,' everywhere, so just a bit of silly fun.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d59boCs31uM