Posts by fulltimestudent

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Premarital sex--how prevalent?

by wafflesandpancakes in

in my old congregation, everyone seems clean.

mostly chaste courtship, kingdom hall wedding, blah blah.. well there are lots of cases of fondling but they were soon forgotton.

when my husband and i confessed to sex before marriage, the elders were disgusted.

fulltimestudent

myguel.pt :@Lostwun: I don't want support, I'm just feeling bad as I was psychologically forced to marry really young, as I had sex tendencies because of the Org. if I could do whatever I would like, I wouldn't be married now, or is I would, it would be with someone more compatible with me.
@ttdtt do you think I should confess? I will be Df as soon as I open my mouth

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What are you worried about myguel pt? As you describe your situation, your wife does not (or, perhaps is incapable of) paying her marriage dues. Now Lostwun thinks you should just be a good little Christian and suffer through this experience until you die.

In truth, you and her (your wife) are both victims of ratbag Christianity, because the JW rules on sex are part and parcel of Christianity. You married young in an attempt to conform to stupid Christian rules. So now how can you resolve your situation.

First, it may be suggested, you need to consider your attitude to Christianity. Do you wish to conform to Christian rules? They are not universal rules, in non-Christian sections of the world, other rules and ideas apply. If you want to conform to Christianity, you'll have to resolve the situation you are in? Probably it means a divorce, which will bring you into conflict with the JW branch of Christianity.

In reality, your situation is not uncommon. It is fairly common for one partner to be not so interested in sex, and the fact that Christian rules do no allow experimentation before marriage,(so that you may both know your own and your prospective partner''s sexual interests) makes it difficult for people to know whether they are well-matched sexually before they marry.

If you really do not give a stuff about Jesus and the stupidity attached to his name, and if your wife (who may really be more practical than you are thinking) and you are happy to share a home, then you could consider continuing as you are. In that case, no point to feel bad. Just remember Christianity is not a practical religion.

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My mother has nervous breakdown because we missed the memorial.

by cookiemaster in

my parents insisted that i'd take them to the memorial.

my cousin said he'd come too and another brother who doesn't have a car begged to join.

i was dreading having to go through exactly the same thing again.

fulltimestudent

There is, or mused to be, a certain procedure to follow if inadvertently someone missed being at the "correct" (WT ordained) time/place memorial.

I've forgotten the details, and choose not to attempt to recall any more information.

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Thanks to the process of digitising you can closely examine a 3000 year old Chinese oracle bone

by fulltimestudent in

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quote: "cambridge university library, which is celebrating its 600th anniversary this year, holds 614 chinese inscribed oracle bones in its collection.

they are the oldest extant documents written in the chinese language, dating from 1339-1112 bce.

inscribed on ox shoulder blades and the flat under-part of turtle shells, they record questions to which answers were sought by divination at the court of the royal house of shang, which ruled north central china at that time.. the inscriptions on the bones provide much insight into many aspects of early chinese society, such as warfare, agriculture, hunting, medical problems, meteorology and astronomy.. among the latter is a record of a lunar eclipse dated to 1192 bce, one of the earliest such accounts in any civilisation.".

fulltimestudent

China was not the only culture to attempt to divine the future through such a process.

The wikipedia entry, dealing with these objects seems fairly accurate (at least to the extent that we presently understand it), and says in part:

"While the use of bones in divination has been practiced almost globally, such divination involving fire or heat has generally been found in Asia and the Asian-derived North American cultures.[36] The use of heat to crack scapulae (pyro-scapulimancy) originated in ancient China, the earliest evidence of which extends back to the 4th millennium BCE, with archaeological finds from Liaoning, but these were not inscribed.[37] In Neolithic China at a variety of sites, the scapulae of cattle, sheep, pigs and deer used in pyromancy have been found,[38] and the practice appears to have become quite common by the end of the third millennium BCE. Scapulae were unearthed along with smaller numbers of pitless plastrons in the Nánguānwài (南關外) stage at Zhengzhou, Henan; scapulae as well as smaller numbers of plastrons with chiseled pits were also discovered in the Lower and Upper Erligang stages.[39]

David Keightley's books may also be helpful:

Keightley, David N. (1978). Sources of Shang history : the oracle-bone inscriptions of Bronze Age China. Berkeley: University of California Press. ISBN 0-520-02969-0.; Paperback 2nd edition (1985) ISBN 0-520-05455-5.
Keightley, David N. (2000). The ancestral landscape: time, space, and community in late Shang China, ca. 1200-1045 B.C (2nd print. ed.). Berkeley: University of California, Berkeley. ISBN 1-55729-070-9.

Reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oracle_bone

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Thanks to the process of digitising you can closely examine a 3000 year old Chinese oracle bone

by fulltimestudent in

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quote: "cambridge university library, which is celebrating its 600th anniversary this year, holds 614 chinese inscribed oracle bones in its collection.

they are the oldest extant documents written in the chinese language, dating from 1339-1112 bce.

inscribed on ox shoulder blades and the flat under-part of turtle shells, they record questions to which answers were sought by divination at the court of the royal house of shang, which ruled north central china at that time.. the inscriptions on the bones provide much insight into many aspects of early chinese society, such as warfare, agriculture, hunting, medical problems, meteorology and astronomy.. among the latter is a record of a lunar eclipse dated to 1192 bce, one of the earliest such accounts in any civilisation.".

fulltimestudent

Quote: "Cambridge University Library, which is celebrating its 600th anniversary this year, holds 614 Chinese inscribed oracle bones in its collection. They are the oldest extant documents written in the Chinese language, dating from 1339-1112 BCE. Inscribed on ox shoulder blades and the flat under-part of turtle shells, they record questions to which answers were sought by divination at the court of the royal house of Shang, which ruled north central China at that time.

The inscriptions on the bones provide much insight into many aspects of early Chinese society, such as warfare, agriculture, hunting, medical problems, meteorology and astronomy.

Among the latter is a record of a lunar eclipse dated to 1192 BCE, one of the earliest such accounts in any civilisation."

With a bit of luck this next reference may bring a copy of the digitised image to this thread. If it doesnt, you can access it from the main link above.

https://skfb.ly/JzSD

So you'll have to click on the link (just above) to access the image. Then you can have a play with it, turn it over, zoom in close.

The side bar carries this information.

The oracle bone texts are the oldest extant documents written in the Chinese language. Inscribed on ox shoulder-blades and the flat under-part of turtle shells, they record questions to which answers were sought by divination at the court of the royal house of Shang 商, which ruled central China between the 16th and 11th centuries B.C.E. For further information follow these links http://cudl.lib.cam.ac.uk/view/MS-CUL-00001-00155/5 http://www.lib.cam.ac.uk/mulu/bones.html

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Is this a site controlled by atheists?

by The Rebel in

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under the exterior of being an ex- witness site, is this site simply converting atheism?.

i pose the question, because many come here in distress and insecurity with the realization that the w.t is wrong but still retain a belief in god.

my personal opinion is the threads on god are not challenged by an atheists personal animosity to believers, they are challenged and become confrontational because the atheist wants an elaboration and factual proof to a believers faith.. is this unreasonable?

fulltimestudent

Something like atheism is the logical end of the process of questioning that starts when someone intelligent leaves the witnesses.

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Watchtower is cashing in on China

by nakanozzi in

japanese brother in china recently revealed thatmany wealthy chinese are interested in watchtower’s teaching and donating money.ex-cos and ex-district os are now preaching undercover in china,and, numberes of special pioneers in china are growing !

fulltimestudent

Interesting thread.

I've been visiting China nearly every year since 2001. In addition I read the English editions of Chinese newspapers nearly every day, and I try to do in-depth studies of academic material that examine various issues.

These are my thoughts on various comments I've read lately, both on this thread and a couple of other recent topics.

many wealthy Chinese are interested in Watchtower’s teaching and donating money.

Well, maybe! Many wealthy Chinese also are interested in Tibetan Buddhism and donate money, (There are many Tibetan Buddhist temples in China proper - for example there are perhaps 50 - some large, some small - on Mt Wutai, not far from Beijing, and also 7 or so in Chengde, a former Royal holiday area for Emperors). That doesn't mean that Tibetan Buddhism is going to sweep China and Tibetan Buddhism is going to have tens of millions of converts.

The Catholic church has had missions in China for more than 400 years, and is the largest Christian church in China. If any church has money, the Catholic church has money. There are many Catholic churches open every day, and plenty of Sunday services. There's a big cathedral open about ten minutes walk from the Forbidden city and the Chinese National Parliament. Some Catholic families go back for generations. It doesn't mean that half of China will convert,

A sober estimate of all Christians in China is 20-30 million. Of course, some will claim more than that. But, then missionaries (of all sects) always seem to exaggerate the numbers that convert.

"...I smuggled literature from Hk to Beijing. Met the underground foreign group...It was growing back then so can imagine it is growing now. Flag Dislike Like"

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"I smuggle much literature, when I travel to china years before."

What happens to all the literature produced in ALL the world? Most of it finishes up in the rubbish. I do not see China being an exception.

(and dangerous! think of what has been happening in Tibet since the Chinese takeover)

Tibet has been part of China, off and on, for centuries. It has certainly been part of China since the mid 17th Century. The leader who set the Manchu's (the Qing dynasty on the road to power entitled the Dalai Leader to be the Temporal ruler of Tibet, as long as he submitted to the Manchu's. When the Manchu's (the Qing dynasty) abdicated, Tibet stayed part of China.

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15 Year Old Mormon Girl Tortured For Being Gay

by cofty in

alex cooper, a former mormon, offers a terrifying account of being held hostage for eight months in an unlicensed “residential treatment program” modeled on the many “therapeutic” boot camps scattered across utah.. at the mormon run “treatment center” alex was physically and verbally abused.

many days she was forced to stand facing a wall wearing a heavy backpack full of rocks.

she developed sores on her shoulders and cramps in her back.

fulltimestudent

If Jesus can murder you for not accepting him as 'Lord', and then 'feed you to the vultures' (Revelation19: 11-21) what's wrong with a bit of torture to 'knock some sense into your head'?

At its heart, Christianity is a violent religion.

The above incident is not uncommon.

October 16, 2015 - http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-34553332

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Interesting article about the evidence of the Jewish Exodus

by cappytan in

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the reality is that there is no evidence whatsoever that the jews were ever enslaved in egypt.

yes, there's the story contained within the bible itself, but that's not a remotely historically admissible source.

i'm talking about real proof; archeological evidence, state records and primary sources.

fulltimestudent

The bible attempts to make the Israelites/Jews look important. They were a bit like the North Koreans of contemporary times, who are always trying to make themselves look powerful.

Why were the Jews doing that? Its because they claimed that their YHWH was the only true god and all the other gods of the nations were nothing. Think of the message in the Elijah and the Baal priests story.

The message behind the exodus story, is that YHWH is so powerful, that the then mightiest nation in that world era, was no match for YHWH's strength and power.

For most past events in 'real' history, there is some corroborating evidence that something happened. There is nothing in 'real' history to corroborate this bit of puffery.

It's all 'piss and wind.' As is the WTS's attempts to prove its true. The WTS's argument is to say that the bible has 'true' history, but the Egyptian record is not true.

Read it for yourself (See the Aid book, pp 540-548).

And, keep thinking about why the OT does not mention that Egypt also ruled Palestine for long periods, with Egyptian armies often supporting their local satrap?

See:

http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/5711077341921280/why-bible-silent-about-real-israel-egyptian-connections

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After leaving what did you Major in?

by Luther bertrand in

i am curious if my observations are correct.

i noticed alot of exjws end up majoring in the social sciences.

i am also interested in what educational choices people have made either while fading or while completely out.

fulltimestudent

I'll graduate this year with a B.Arts. with a major in Ancient History, and maybe a minor in Japanese studies. My capstone essay earned a distinction, but I lost marks for being a day late in my submission. Bugger!

That's the formal description for my studies, but I usually describe my studies as a 'blackmarket' degree, in that I've followed no formal program, but made as many intellectual journeys as I could across Asia, exploring side roads as I went. In that journey, I accumulated more credit points than I need to graduate, simply because there was always some new discovery to be investigated. I was fortunate in being to use the resources of two universities in my explorations.

I faced a difficult decision at the beginning of this journey, I could see that the big story of the nineteenth century was the disintegration of east Asian order, and in the twentieth C. the re-organisation of China, and in the twentyfirst C. the ascendancy of Asia, but I was also very curious about the origins of Christianity and the role of 'shared' knowledge in the development of both Judaism and Christianity. I settled for Asia, but found to my surprise that my intellectual journey would also enlighten me as to the pagan origins of both Judaism and Christianity.

My only regret, is that I wasted 40 years of my life thinking that the YHWH/Jesus combo God was going to save the world. How could I have succumbedr to believing something so weird? (grin)

Right now, I'm taking two topics essentially outside my field of study, but the university thinks I (OK, all students) need something they call a 'people' unit and a 'planet' unit. Searching through the lists of topics, I found a study unit under each label that helps me. So this semester, "Critical thinking" and next semester, "Why do people believe weird things" - so here's hoping I do not become too introspective.

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I wonder what D.Trump thinks of this order, placed with a Chinese company by Chicago transport

by fulltimestudent in

its interesting to watch these shenagins, isn't it?

the order was for: .

846 7000-series rail cars from csr sifang america jv, which submitted the lowest bid, chicago transport authority said in a statement on its website thursday.

fulltimestudent

DesirousOfChange : But they will structure the cost of those things in such a manner that the US based manufacturing plant shows no profit and thus owes no corp taxes to the US or Illinois.
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That seems to be the way international business is done, as organised by the current world hegemon.

In Australia, (at least), American businesses (Google, MacDonalds, etc) dodge the payment of enormous amounts of taxes, it's becoming a bit of an issue in local politics, as royalties from the slumping export of iron ore to China, although I really cant see any of our two possible oligarchies doing much about it.