Posts by fulltimestudent

  • WhoLovesMagic
    17

    Being an Orphan Hurts No Matter What Age

    by WhoLovesMagic in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    what kind of parents forget the day you were born?

    jehovah's witness(es)!!!.

    yes today is my 3rd birthday (only started celebrating 3 years ago).

    1. Xanthippe
    2. yadda yadda 2
    3. LV101
  • fulltimestudent
    fulltimestudent

    There's a saying WLM, that you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends.

    Maybe that's the way to get a new family that will not be so judgemental. Then you can disfellowship your old family. (grin)

  • designs
    110

    Tim Tebow to address Anti-Gay Anti-Semetic Mega Church

    by designs in
    1. social
    2. current

    quarterback tim tebow is scheduled to address the 11,000 member first baptist dallas congregation april 28th.

    first baptist dallas and its outspoken pastor robert jeffries in recent times have called islam and mormonism coming from the 'pits of hell' and you can't be 'saved being a jew', although he clarified that being a jew is not the same type of hereticalness as being a mormon.....huh?.

    pastor jeffries called the election of obama 'the rise of the anti-christ'.

    1. designs
    2. Deputy Dog
    3. tec
  • fulltimestudent
    fulltimestudent

    The Tebow character and his sponsor both look like so many others of their ilk that talk big about sexual sins, and who (one day) are discovered to be doing precisely what they condemn so zealously. This could be a result of their internalised fear of their own personal inclination to homosexuality. So it may be that the stronger the attraction of these men to other males (and its mainly men that become so vociferous about men having sex with men), the more they condemn it in public, as part of a never-ending struggle against their own lust. It often becomes hypocritical when the public talk masks their secret sexual escapades with other men, witness the many examples in American public life.

    Examples of this can often be seen in American public life. (probably the same in other nations also, but the American example is better documented) The odious McCarthy of the immediate post war era, conflated and demonised homosexuality with communism, and was surrounded by men who on rational examination were motivated by their own internalised homophobia. Here are some of the names of that era, who were secretly homosexual, but often loud in their denunciations of homosexuality. We could start with the most powerful (at tht time) man in the USA- J.Edgar Hoover, head of the FBI. Extremely powerful because his secret files were as good as the later East German Stasi, listing all the secret dirt on the who's who of US Society. Hoover was single all his life and lived with his 'best friend' Clyde Tolson, who was employed at FBI HQ by Hoover. It is now well-known that Hoover was same sex attracted.

    Here's a pik of hoover and his gay partner relaxing together. (from Wikipedia)

    File:Hoover & Tolson.jpg

    Hoover made the bullets that McCarthy fired - not only against communists - but also against homosexuals.

    Secondly, we could take Cardinal Francis Spellman, though I'm not quite sure that he had a strong 'internalised homophobia.' I think he really enjoyed his attraction to other males. As Archbishop of New York he also was extremely powerful (he became the richest Catholic prelate in the US Church). He is described as having a succession of boyfriends and holding discreet gay parties. Also a close friend and supporter of McCarthy, and a purposeful ally in the McCarthy witchhunts, he arranged an adoption for the McCarthy's when their marriage proved childless.

    Another key figure was a psychiatrist, Harry Stack Sullivan who also lived with his male lover. Sullivan can surely be indicted as hypocritical and with an internalised homophobia. During WW2 he designed screening tests to weed out homosexuals in the military. Not sure how successful the tests were, that's something I'd like to research one day. I suggest that Sullivan worked with McCarthy to expose possible homosexuals in government.

    And, then there is the infamous Roy Cohn, McCarthy's right hand man, a N.Y.Lawyer and McCarthy's fixer. Curious is it not, that Cohn' efforts led to McCarthy's downfall when Cohn tried to arrange special privileges in the US Army, for a David Schnide with whom he was infatuated. Cohn was the ultimate homophobic hypocrite. Nicholas von Hoffman, wrote a biography of Cohn, called Citizen Cohn. One of Cohn's former staffers described how he would drive Cohn to functions held by 'family first' type groups where Cohn would make vicious attacks on homosexuals (enemies of the state stuff, maybe???) On these occasions Cohn would be accompanied by his current boyfriend, and they would then go off to dinner together.

    With so many 'friends of Dorothy' around him, it's easy to start wondering about McCarthy himself.

    Internalised homophobia is well discussed in the academic circles concerned with emotional and mental health (although, there is discussion as to whether 'homophobia' is the best term).

    It is clear that in western, Christian society with the terrible inner (emotional) tensions created by the doctrine that the 'spirit is against the flesh' (Galatians Ch 5), not just for the same sex attracted, but for heterosexuals also, it is little wonder that people finish up 'awkward' about sex. For those who are 'gay,' as we now describe this age-old phenonemon, the problem is exacerbated by past social condemnation. Since humans are social animals, this is a difficult problem. Little wonder that some same-sex attracted people become 'homophobic.'

  • mP
    3

    Will the ex Pope be extradited to answer pedophile claims come Mar 13 ?

    by mP in
    1. watchtower
    2. bible

    given he previously refused to attend court in america & canada given his immunity as a national leader,what happens come 1 march 2013 when he looses this protection ?

    this is a disaster for the church, because some country will eventually call him and he will have to answer some hard quesetions give his leadership in the pedphile coverup policies of the church.. .

    1. designs
    2. fulltimestudent
    3. LV101
  • fulltimestudent
    fulltimestudent

    You've got to be kidding .. if it was not such a serious matter, I'd laugh out loud.

    It's quite clear that justice has been perverted in many countries (including the English speaking ones) with the connivance of 'believing Christians' in law enforcement and government.

  • fulltimestudent
    4

    Gong xi fa cai - Congratulations and Prosperity (for the New Year)

    by fulltimestudent in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    its chinese new year time!.

    all around the world, chinese people and their friends will celebrate this event starting this year on february 8 and ending on the 24th.

    and, in the traditional concept, the coming year will be the year of the (water) snake.. if you have chinese friends, you can greet them with the words "gong xi fa cai" ( pinyin transliteration) a traditional chinese greeting.

    1. fulltimestudent
    2. fulltimestudent
    3. blindnomore
  • fulltimestudent
    fulltimestudent

    Wherever Chinese and other East Asians live, the Lunar new year is celebrated, often with community organised events.

    Here's Shanghai's light display:

    http://english.cntv.cn/program/cultureexpress/20130207/107008.shtml

    and some examples of Singapore's (70% chinese) celebrations:

    http://english.cntv.cn/program/cultureexpress/20130209/101644.shtml

  • fulltimestudent
    4

    Gong xi fa cai - Congratulations and Prosperity (for the New Year)

    by fulltimestudent in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    its chinese new year time!.

    all around the world, chinese people and their friends will celebrate this event starting this year on february 8 and ending on the 24th.

    and, in the traditional concept, the coming year will be the year of the (water) snake.. if you have chinese friends, you can greet them with the words "gong xi fa cai" ( pinyin transliteration) a traditional chinese greeting.

    1. fulltimestudent
    2. fulltimestudent
    3. blindnomore
  • fulltimestudent
    fulltimestudent

    And, in the contemporary world, the vibrant East Asian culture adapts to modern forms.

    Traditional greetings have expanded into the new media. A friend sent me his personal CNY greeting, with some views of his (Sydney suburban) house:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fmzx8uBhsn0

    And, for younger people, what's popular in the music field is adapted into the traditional as in this example, combining Korean gangnam style:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKw9_WG0jeE