And for more "Israelite family life" you may examine the story of a 'certain Levite' in Judges 19, travelling with his concubine, who, according to the story doesn't mind being screwed by some other bloke (see verse 2).
They find lodging for a night in Gibeah with an old man and they apparently have a good time eating and drinking. The author of this story had surely read the Sodom story, and thought it a rather good yarn, for he follows almost the same plot. While the Levite and their host (and maybe the Levite's wife) are having this good time, there's a banging on the door, its a mob of the local 'lads' looking for some sex -
"they shouted to the old man who owned the house, “Bring out the man who came to your house so we can have sex with him.” (vs 22)
The old man refuses, saying,
"No, my friends, don’t be so vile." (vs 23)
The old man then makes a 'two for one' offer the mob can't refuse.
"Look, here is my virgin daughter, and his (the Levite's) concubine. I will bring them out to you now, and you can use them and do to them whatever you wish." (vs 24)
The old man's daughter apparently refuses (sensible girl) because she doesn't get pushed out the door to the mob, but the text does seem to indicate (its a little confusing as to who grabs and pushes her outside) that the Levite himself grabs and gives her (his wife) to the sex-crazed mob.
"So the man took his concubine and sent her outside to them, and they raped her and abused her throughout the night, and at dawn they let her go." (vs 25)
But now the author of this biblical story let's his imagination go wild.
The Levite is angry and cuts the abused body of his 'wife' into 12 pieces and sends a piece to each of the 12 tribes (of Israel) and there's a general assembly over the rape and murder, and a decision is made to punish the whole tribe of Benjamin, because some Benjamite males carried out this sex crime. (the story continues in Judges ch 20).
YHWH now gets involved*, He commands that Judah take the lead in the battle with the Benjamites, but apparently the Israelite's do not have enough 'blood lust' because YHWH doesn't give them victory, and thousands of Israelite warriors are slain by the smaller Benjamite army, and again and again, before old YHWH gives them the victory and allows an act of genocide against the Benjamites.
So some smartarse now figures out that nearly all the Benjamite males are dead, and all the other Israelites have sworn not to allow their daughters to marry surviving Benjamites (ch 21:1), so there will soon be only 11 tribes, and they are supposed to have 12.
And then someone notices that the men of Jabesh-gilead had not taken part in the war against the Benjamites, so they decided to commit genocide and wipe them out as a punishment.
But fortuitously, 400 virgin girls are left, so they give them to the surviving Benjamite males, but 400 virgin girls are not enough. (the girls are not given a choice)
SO (and if you want an example of biblically approved rape, here it comes) - Every year there was a "festival of Jehovah," in Shiloh. The still womanless survivors of the Benjamite massacre are given permission to go to the festival, hide in the orchards around the city, and when the daughters of the Israelites that lived in Shiloh, came out to the orchards to sing and dance they could -
"“... watch. When the young women of Shiloh come out to join in the dancing, rush from the vineyards and each of you seize one of them to be your wife. Then return to the land of Benjamin. (22) When their fathers or brothers complain to us, we will say to them, ‘Do us the favor of helping them, because we did not get wives for them during the war. You will not be guilty of breaking your oath because you did not give your daughters to them.’” (ch 21)
So if you've stayed the course, and read through this pointless stupid biblical story that demonstrates that the Israelites were total jerks, and YHWH the chief jerk, you should easily be able to realise that the Bible is merely a man-made book, and there's absolutely no point in waiting for YHWH to bring you everlasting life.
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* Think about this! As the Israelite's follow the instructions of the all-wise, all-powerful, merciful YHWH, tens of thousands of ordinary Israelites (fathers, sons etc) die in battle, kids are left orphanned, families left without a breadwinner, the tribe of Benjamin is nearly wiped out and unnumbered more men left wounded, perhaps incapacitated for life.
All this, because the all-powerful, all-knowing YHWH didn't zap a few miscreants when they committed their crime.