Marriages in the faith is having a bad survival rate.
The older marriages survive, because they started out in the 50's that held the view that the man brings in the bacon, and the wife stays in the kitchen and cooks, and shuts up. The man rules, but he can send his wife a flower to make up for his imperfections.
Newer marriages don't follow that 50's rule..Both are working, both cook and work in the kitchen. Both are pressured to have a regular share in FS.
Get 1o hrs a month average in FS time, and presto...your husband is an Elder, or MS. It doesn't matter if you have no experience in life, or can't counsel...it's the perception that counts.
The older marriages should have terminated, but it wasn't viewed as positive, as it is today.
The drama is the society's attempt to fix this problem. Funny thing, the families that broke down in my congregation had nothing to do with unbaptised, and baptised individuals. Many pioneered, many served as Elders, many had positions. Some had higher learning, some had low education.
I don't think that it's about the sex. It's about the working on it principle. It takes two to make it work.