Thanks for assuming the motives of every ex here. You must be a mind reader
We all do things for our own reasons.
If being effective is your aim, then stay in plant seeds from within. I wanted to lead my own life and my kids to be able to live normal lives. The ones stuck in can leave when they are ready to leave.
Picketing a convention, raising a toast at the memorial or simply engaging the dubs at a cart are all ways of helping to lay the bricks of doubt. There are so many different people and different ways of being woken up that taking any option off the table is shortsighted.
Dont be a dick, dont be violent and I am ok with a little civil disobedience.
pbrow