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  Disfellowshipped/disassociated – How did your parents handle it?

  by Richard_I in

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  to those who were disfellowshipped/disassociated – how did your still-in parents handle it?.

  i don’t want to fade, so i am thinking about disassociating soon – i don’t care if i’m playing by the org’s rules, i just want out.. however, i am concerned about how my parents will react.

  i don’t want them to become super depressed or whatever due to me leaving the org.. i don’t want them to be hurt by my decision to leave the org, but i feel like there is no way of avoiding this..

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  Iamallcool

  If you don’t want to fade, the only option is da’ing yourself. I have been putting off for years to officially disassocating myself for family reasons. When you feel the time is right, send the elders your disassocation letter. You are right there is no way to avoid the “consequences” when you are officially disassociated.
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  Do You Know Any “Gay” Jehovah’s Witnesses?

  by minimus in

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  of course the religion condemns homosexuality but did you know any gay witnesses?

  i knew some bethelites that were very effeminate and i remember 4 women who were suspected of being lesbians by many in the congregation.

  they eventually moved away and were very vocal against males, especially elders..

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  Iamallcool

  Yes he acted like one even as a JW. He was an elder. He is now df’d. It is not hard to figure out why.
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  Old Bethelities

  by new boy in

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  my book is going to my editor this week.

  just a few lose ends to deal with.. does anyone here knows what has happen to any of the following ex-bethelities and hopefully ex-jehovah's witnesses.

  mark bivins.

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  Iamallcool

  I do not know David Kubecha. I used to live in Houston. If you dare, call David Slackman, he is a very prominent elder in Houston. He might know David K. Worth a try. It is up to you.
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  Have you read this book?

  by Iamallcool in

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  have you read this book?

  not sure if i should purchase this book?

  it might help ex jws more than never a jw.

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  Iamallcool

  Have you read this book? Not sure if I should purchase this book? It might help ex JWs more than never a JW.

  https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062457713/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_I0MPAb3XX2TV7
  
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  My Dissociation letter

  by TJ Curioso in

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  2. experiences

  hi to everyone!i was summoned to the judicial committee and went.

  it was a respectful conversation from one side to the other.

  in the end i handed the dissociation letter in hand and a binding to each of the elders, with an article i wrote on the subject, "are jehovah's witnesses a destructive sect?

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  Unhappy being asked to give a Disfellowshipped Sister a ride to and from Meetings

  by Isambard Crater in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i'm pimo, very much against disfellowshipping, and going to a meeting leaves me feeling confused and angry at the best of times.

  except an elder asked me on thursday night if i can start giving a ride to a disfellowshipped woman because she lives near me and nobody else from the hall lives in my village.

  it seems the elder and his family who have been giving this woman a ride for the past six months can no longer stomach the time it takes them to go out of their way.. i thought all normal publishers weren't to have any contact with disfellowshipped people?

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  Iamallcool

  Lyft or Uber should do it!
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  Unhappy being asked to give a Disfellowshipped Sister a ride to and from Meetings

  by Isambard Crater in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i'm pimo, very much against disfellowshipping, and going to a meeting leaves me feeling confused and angry at the best of times.

  except an elder asked me on thursday night if i can start giving a ride to a disfellowshipped woman because she lives near me and nobody else from the hall lives in my village.

  it seems the elder and his family who have been giving this woman a ride for the past six months can no longer stomach the time it takes them to go out of their way.. i thought all normal publishers weren't to have any contact with disfellowshipped people?

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  Say no! If the elder keeps pressuring you, tell him what part of No don’t you understand ? then walk away.
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  Goodbye Jehova

  by UnshackleTheChains in

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  just wondered if there might be an english translation of this book.

  just read on jwsurvey how watchtower has brought legal action against the publishing company.. sounds like it has touched a raw nerve at watchtower.

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  Find Family Happiness ... NOT!

  by jp1692 in

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  the other day my wife and i were in sonoma.

  we were just walking around enjoying the pleasant afternoon in the quaint, old downtown area when i saw two jw women standing by their “witnessing cart.” .

  normally, i just ignore them whenever i see jws standing by a cart, but i gotta admit it: this time it really bugged me because of the title on the cart: find family happiness.

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  Iamallcool

  Well maybe you should have reacted differently. Maybe you should have told them that you are very happy now because you are out of their very weird religion.
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  Peter Andre Left Jehovah’s Witness Faith ‘So He Could Have Sex’

  by Bangalore in

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  peter andre left jehovah’s witness faith ‘so he could have sex’.

  http://metro.co.uk/2018/01/25/peter-andre-left-jehovahs-witness-faith-sex-7259118/.

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  Iamallcool

  Maybe they should stop using Andre’s name. What about Tony???