Has anyone in this forum ever had an Elder in the organization discuss "apostate" teachings with them in a non-threatening, mutually enlightening way? Obviously, there are many of you who have talked with Elders about "apostate" ideas, and have been disfellowshipped/disciplined for it. That's not really what I'm interested in hearing about in this thread, no offense.
The reason I ask:
A few years ago, an Elder from a neighboring congregation invited me to lunch out of the blue. I have no idea what prompted him to take an interest in me, as he was considerably older than me. Perhaps he thought I was a good conversationalist? Anyhow...an incredible friendship developed and we began meeting one another weekly, sometimes mulitple times a week, and discussing different subjects. Very quickly, those conversations turned to discussions about our mutual concern regarding WBTS teachings, which turned into out-and-out bashing of certain teachings and ideas, which turned into a mutual agreement to talk about these things with no one else for fear of apostasy accusations. The funny thing is, even though our spiritual conversations were mostly of a contrary nature, I never felt more spiritually strong than I did during the early part of our friendship.
I have pages and pages of e-mails that we sent back and forth to one another questioning the Society's stand regarding certain matters, and the transformation of our organization as it continues to come up with new Rules and do away with old ones.
I wouldn't be suprised if that Elder is a member of this forum. But, I have no idea.
Have any of you ever had a personal confidant inside the organization who was serving actively as an Elder (and was not a family member) that would discuss such things with you in an open forum, free from the threat of an apostasy accusation?
Just curious. If you care to relate any specific experiences, I'd be glad to read about them! 
