Okaythen,
You know as well as I do that most of my time is spent working three jobs.
Yes, I do come on the internet when I get home. When I do get home, most of the time the kids are already in bed asleep. What, am I to wake them up to spend time with them?
Also, as far as Christmas. I was working then also. So, since I had to work, I let them go to my sisters. They wanted to go.
I know what your problem is. You just hate that I am not sitting at your house all the time. You would get angry with me for not wanting to go places. I told you then and I still tell you now. I am a homebody. I do not like to run the streets. What is wrong with that?
My kids, they are fed, have warm clean clothes. And a roof over their heads. I seem to recall while you were living alone that YOUR child is the one who was never at home with his mom, he was always at your mothers. You were always drinking and trying to kill yourself.
I know I am not perfect, never claimed to be so. But you know as well as I that I do love my children. And you also know that the reason they are going to stay with my mother is because my son has been bucking up to me as if to say he does not have to listen. You also know it was my mothers idea and not mine.
Now, do you want to know the reason I stopped talking to you for so long? It is because you always tried to tell me what I should do and how I should do it. I think what your problem is is that you can't control me.
Now, if you want to talk about this further, you have my phone number. I have tried to call you three times already, since I came home from bringing my son who you say I never do things for or with, to his friends house to work on a school project.
Shari
I don't want someone in my life I can live with. I want someone in my life I can't live without.