Posts by WildHorses

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I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

Simplesally, I have caller ID and I will not be accepting his calls.

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I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

Thanks everyone,

I admit I always second guess my judgement. This being the reason I asked for your advise.

LB, thanks, I already thought about that, and HELL NO! Once I leave, thats it for me. That's why I always wait till I am sure before I do leave. I never go back.

Now, want to know what really p*ssed me off? He didn't show up at the store tonight so I couldn't give him the letter. But, not to worry, I just e-mailed it to him

Thanks again for reasuring me that I did the right thing.

Lilacs

37

I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

KJV, I just had to look once more before going to work.

"I'm surprised you haven't hooked up with one of the good looking single apostate men on this board. I think apostates make great couples!"

That's because no one here has shown any interest in me LOL
Now

Now, I really am leaving for work.

Lilacs

37

I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

Thanks Heaven,

I am very open and honest, ans I also hate to hurt others feelings. Even if it means getting my own feelings hurt.

I have to leave for work right now, but hope to hear others opinions as well.

See ya when I get back home. :)

Lilacs

37

I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

Larc, thank you for your kinds words.

Scully, those were my words. He didn't say it that way. What he said is that I always look great.

Lilacs

16

First Time Poster

by DanTheMan in

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hello to all who have been escaped from the wt bondage.

i just da'd last week, the most difficult decision i've ever made, but i'm 99.999% sure i made the right decision.

this website has been a godsend thus far.

WildHorses

Hi DanTheMan,

Welcome to our humble home away from home.

Lilacs

37

I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

Thanks TR, I am so unsure of myself, this being the reason I am asking for others opinions.

Life is waaaaaaaaaaaaay to short for me to be waisting my time on men who cheat.

Lilacs

37

I am going to be just fine :)

by WildHorses in

i don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.. i told a few of you about a guy i have been seeing for the past few months.

well, i found out that he has been seeing other women, and i spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him.

he didnt want to hear it.

WildHorses

I don't know if any of you really want to hear this, so if not please stop reading here.

I told a few of you about a guy I have been seeing for the past few months. Well, I found out that he has been seeing other women, and I spoke to him last night and tried to break it off with him. He didn’t want to hear it. He said that I was one of the best women he has ever met. Said I was kind hearted, loving, had a great sense of humor and was always well groomed when he saw me.

It is hard for me to say no, so I let it go for the moment, but when I got home, I really sat down and thought about it. I realized that this is why I have been used all my life. I settle. Well, not anymore!

I wrote him a letter. This is what I wrote. Please let me know if I said things in the best way possible?

Dear *****,

I’ve really put a lot of thought into this so please hear me out, and please do not feel that I am putting you down in any way. I just feel this is best for both of us.

I understand that you are recently single and wish to retain your
Freedom. I respect that, if that is what you wish.

On the other hand, I would hope that you would also extend the same to me. I have been single for two years. No dating or anything. My reason being, I wasn’t ready for a relationship. I am now, and it would not be fare for me to try in anyway to push you to make a decision.

*****, one thing you need to know about me. when I fall in love, I give 110% of myself. I expect nothing less in return. My only problem in the past is that I didn’t think enough of myself and let men walk all over me. I took two years off from dating to do a bit of soul searching and discovered that I am worth it. If a man can not see that, he doesn’t deserve me anyway.

*****, I do have strong feelings for you but, if I continue seeing you. I will be in danger of losing my heart to you, and that is when I will end up being hurt, because you are not ready for a relationship with just one woman, and I am not willing to share.

*****, I may not be “in” love with you, but I do love you enough to let go. I know in my heart that this is the right thing to do. I would hope though that we can remain friends. I would like that.

Be happy *****, in whatever you do.

Shari

87

Life Is On the Hairy Edge

by AlanF in

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got a call late this afternoon: "your daughter was in a car accident along with four other girls.

you need to come to the emergency room.".

daughter not there yet.

WildHorses

Alan,

I'm sorry to hear about your daughter. I'm glad the prognosis looks good.

I keep worying when I am going to get a call about my son. He seems to think that I know nothing about life and does not listen to me.

Please keep us posted.

Shari

16

Who's Who?

by KJV in

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i am new here and have been away from ex-dub world for about eight months.

many of you here were posters on h20 and have come on this board with a different moniker.

i was "milky" on h20.

WildHorses

I was LUV2SHARI on H2O