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  A word of advice clining to their persecutors ...

  by SecretSlaveClass in

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  let me start off by saying i do not presume to have the answers, i am merely offering advice.. i will preface this posting with this, cutting a long story short:.

  my sister was raped by a popular jw lad wh's dad happen to be a rock star elder.

  in the attempt to fight him off his face was covered with scratches and it was reported to the police ( instead of rape he was sentenced on the lesser charges of sexual battery and assault) but he confessed to having violent, consentual sex.

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  SecretSlaveClass

  Fukitol:

  It's a reference to those who are to scared to leave the Org on account of losing their loved ones, despite being persecuted by them.
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  A word of advice clining to their persecutors ...

  by SecretSlaveClass in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  let me start off by saying i do not presume to have the answers, i am merely offering advice.. i will preface this posting with this, cutting a long story short:.

  my sister was raped by a popular jw lad wh's dad happen to be a rock star elder.

  in the attempt to fight him off his face was covered with scratches and it was reported to the police ( instead of rape he was sentenced on the lesser charges of sexual battery and assault) but he confessed to having violent, consentual sex.

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  SecretSlaveClass

  Let me start off by saying I do not presume to have the answers, I am merely offering advice.

  I will preface this posting with this, cutting a long story short:

  My sister was raped by a popular JW lad wh's dad happen to be a rock star elder. In the attempt to fight him off his face was covered with scratches and it was reported to the police ( Instead of rape he was sentenced on the lesser charges of sexual battery and assault) but he confessed to having violent, consentual sex. Yes you guessed it, the JC found no cause to take action against him. My sister on the other hand was Df'd for sexual misconduct, lewd behaviour, immorality and slander (she was understandably angry and being very vocal at the KH).

  Now the worst part. My mother was convinced my sister was guilty as accused. I was seven and she 16 at the time (I was 13 when I learned she was raped) and can still see my mother yelling at my dad in the kitchen. She screamed that she was sick and tired of her daughter's promiscuous behaviour, that she always knew the "little trollip" would be disfellowshipped and that she wanted her daughter out of the house - she didn't care if she wound up homeless.

  She was out the house a week later to go live my uncle and his family (they weren't JW's) and my mom never spoke to her again. My dad and I would have to visit her secretly so as not to inspire my mom's wrath. Her and my zombie brother would take every opportunity at assemblies and conventions to assassinate my sister's character and reputation, letting everyone who would listen know what a slut she was.

  I never got baptized for my own reasons and stopped going to meetings shortly after I turned fourteen having learned of my sister's rape a few months before. My mother was furious but it didn't bother me being well aware of her vindictive and irrational nature. At seventeen I left to join the military in order to get away from her and her toxic JW environment. That was 1987. I never uttered a word to her or my brother again for what they had done to my sister, until 2008 when my wife and I travelled back to South Africa to visit my ailing father and when he passed, once again I Severed all contact.

  All those years my mom was beside herself, not because she had no communication with her youngest son, but because she could not get me under her control. It incensed her that she was unable saddle with me with the laws of her beloved god, the WBTS.

  If you are under duress from abusive family members under the spell of the Org, get out from under their control ASAP. Otherwise you're going to spend your years in misery trying to placate people who don't know how to love you, only how they think what love is as dictated by the Org since that is what they love more. if this is your family members disposition then you are well aware they will ALWAYS choose the Org over you and you will look back one day at all those miserable, wasted years with nothing to show for it but heartache, bitnerness and loathing. The best years of your life existing as nothing more than a reminder of how different things could have been if only you had got it through your skull sooner and made a break for your happiness.

  I know, I've got a degree, a successful business, an amazing wife and a life which I live on my own terms, and my JW friends who left it so late? Yes they're still trying to glue their lives back together and are some of the most bitter people I know.
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  i made my sister cry :(

  by BlackWolf in

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  2. friends

  so lately i've felt so frustrated and overwhelmed that i had to tell someone how i felt.

  my parents were gone so i decided to talk to my sister.

  we've always been close so i thought i could trust her because we have talked about it before.

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  SecretSlaveClass

  Definitely what Village Idiot said.
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  Pangea and Anti-Matter

  by John Aquila in

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  did anyone here get to hear the talk you will be with me in paradise by ciro aulicino in 2007 at the summer convention?

  i found part of the talk in youtube.

  oh the memories!!

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  Saying that guy is crazy would detract from from what an evil, vindictive and vicious person he is. I could actually see him in my mind's eye drooling in anticipation of the slaughter of billions of innocents. And the audience was laughing along with him. Disgusting! I bet if JW's were in charge of this planet like fundamentalist Muslims are in some countries they would eagerly set about in the systematic slaughter of "the wicked". What a despicable cult!
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  Do you believe Jehovah's Witnesses' Governing Body is the "faithful slave"?

  by Marvin Shilmer in

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  2. scandals

  this question is known to be posed by jws to other jws as an acid test of loyalty.

  i'm not the first to notice what i'm about to point out and comment accordingly, but today i felt compelled to add a short article on my blog highlighting the new language that governing body member geoffrey jackson supplies as a response.

  a person who honestly hesitates to respond with a robust "yes!

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  Yes, the same way I believe that all politicians are honest, there is a secret NSA base on the dark side of the moon, that aliens abduct people regularly in order to probe their respective orifices and JFK was the victim of the teamsters hit contract.
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  Ambulance chasers

  by Diogenesister in

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  2. experiences

  mornin',.

  not feeling too clever at the moment...so sent off to the hospital for more tests....off the bus, round the corner......run slap bang into my first one...its witnessin'cart himself!!

  right outside the hospital gates!

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  POs Son36 minutes agoYour post title reminded me of this:

  
  

  Do they first make you swear to serve the GB before administering first aid? And when they drop you off at the hospital do they ask for a donation?
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  New picture...about time...sorry for bat gravatar

  by blondie in

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  if only it was so easy to change our looks in real life........

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  SecretSlaveClass

  Nice avatar :)
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  Taken from pro JW forum

  by username in

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  now this is embarrassing.. after being cold in the truth for many, many years, and getting back some 2 years ago, my wife and i, decided to auxiliary pioneer last year during the memorial campaign.

  we were quite impressed that we made the 30 hrs.. last month, we decide to do it again.

  after handing in our application forms, and being approved, our service overseer asks me, "how many hours are you going to do?".

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  SecretSlaveClass

  He's quoting someone from a pro-JW site. And yes, sad, embarrassing and above all pathetic.
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  As a Matter of Conscience, I Am Resigning from the Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses

  by Sail Away in

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  2. beliefs

  after listening to the hearings of the australian royal commission into institutional responses to child sexual abuse, i am no longer content to have simply walked away from the organization.

  as a matter of conscience, i do not want my name linked with the organization in any way.

  i know this letter has been posted previously, and i thank the author.

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  SecretSlaveClass

  Well done and salutations! Enjoy your true new found freedom sir.
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  So I was enjoying a business trip in down town Bangkok...............Next thing BANG!!!

  by cantleave in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so last night i was having a wonderful meal in a very nice restaurant when we heard what we thought was a loud clap of thunder.................. it was a bomb.

  yards from my hotel.

  thankfully i made a few decision that meant i wasn't in the wrong place at the wrong time.

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  SecretSlaveClass

  This was a thread about expressing gratitude that a cherished member's close call with death or injury did not end badly for him while expressing anguish over the innocent lives lost. Somehow someone believes it prudent to turn it into vitriolic diatribe orientated around his feelings. Not cool and only affirms why people are of the opinion that staunch kamikaze bible pilots are presumptuous assholes and lack critical thinking skills.