I'm sorry Ding, but perhaps the "you're never good enough" also comes from the Bible? Always having to please an angry God? Never measuring up because we were born "sinners"?
I'm repeating this for emphasis, and adding scripture to support the claim. How many evangelical videos have I seen that use this text to support our "need" for Christ's sacrifice?
Isaiah 64:6
6 All of us have become like one who is unclean,
and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags;
we all shrivel up like a leaf,
and like the wind our sins sweep us away.
No matter what we do, unless we accept Christ, we are worthless in God's eyes, according to Christians.