Paul, so sorry for the misery you have had in your life, but so happy you are now free and leading a successful life. You are right, JW or not, your mother sounds mentally ill and was clearly abusive. I may have missed it in some of the posts but where is your father in all this? You said parents, so I assume he is still in the picture? Did he go along with the physical abuse you endured as a child or now support her hateful, insane rants to you and your children? I'm with the others who say screen your calls and have no further contact with her. What does your wife think of her insane rants, does she agree with her batcrap crazy mother in law? After all, your mother tried to break up your marriage with her lies.