I think it is important to recognise what was done to us, accept it, accept that you have to move on, then make huge efforts to do so.
in honesty about 3yrs is a good guide in my humble opinion, for when the indoctrinated switches stop getting thrown.
But, doesn't mean you can't enjoy these things in the mean time, when the feelings are triggered, laugh it off as a crazy time.
todsy more than any day in the year, is a wake up call to how lucky WE are that we figured it out! There are lots if very sad kids and people today, despite our hang ups, we were fortunate enough to leave that behind xxx the more time that passes, the further back in time and space ;) it becomes!
MERRY CHRISTMAS KATE X
snare x
P.s. You have saved your kids a lot of heartache, that outweighs any JW nonsense :D x