Hey shakyground, I don't post a lot but I had to respond. I have always felt that this whole thing is based on failed logic. Why would they appeal to your sense of family? I mean according to their theology; if you make to the new system you won't remember all of the bad things that happened before, ergo: your family and friends aren't going to remember you if you caused them pain or dissapointment, and neither will you since if there is no after life then neither will you. It's just a pile of garbage heaped upon garbage. Their own belief system is built on a house of cards. Personally I enjoy their headgames. I really liked the responses of troubled mind: they would really make people feel uncomfortable. Anyway take care.
Kensei.