Hi Sam, We have never met before but I wanted to say I admire your stand up pont of view.
It is hard on a website that basically shares a common dislike, to point out the "other side of the story".
So I admire you for that.
My experience with the Witnesses has been very different than yours.
I saw them be all sweetness and light as long as I was giving, giving, giving.
(Pioneering, married to a COBE, daughter of elder, sister of elder, mother of elder - siblings in missionary work etc.)
When I questioned a corrupt act on the part of two elders and a Circuit Overseer was when I was treated to the "other side".
Covering up, lying, stalling - you name it.
Oh! And an indifferent response from the Society when I asked questions.
Basically my conclusion is, everything CAN be fine unless.....
Unless you uncover a wrongdoing on the part of ANY elder or C.O. or any higher up. Then there is no court of appeal, no where to go, no support.
You say you are disfellowshipped. Maybe you feel you deserved it, I have no idea not hearing your side of things.
But what about the people who havent gotten justice and have no recourse?
How would you feel if you were one of them?
You would feel a LOT different, trust me.