Hello Wonder Woman! Welcome to the forum
I am pretty much new myself here, just been a lurker in the background for several months and recently started posting.
i think you will find you will get an enormous response from everone here, because everyone here has been through if not the same, almost similar to what you are going through and here is your support.
Dont be afraid to talk about the reason you were disfellowshipped over(if you are afraid to mention it) people here have been there and done that with a lot of bad things, but none of us would even bat an eyelid.
The jehovahs witnesses may be very friendly and think they are Gods chosen people, but they couldnt be further from the truth.
I am so sorry you have been victimized to this disfellowshipping, i know Jesus Christ certainly would not treat people this way, after all, if your child falls down you dont throw him back down again.
Feel free to open your heart up to everyone here, becasue all these people have helped me, and we have all helped each other in the same way we will for you.
Keep strong and dont worry, becasue before you know it being disfellowshipped was probably the best thing that could ever happen to you.
Things will come good with your family.
dm6