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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

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  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  You guys are right ... I deserve more, and im not even a demanding person ... i think ive been reasonable, not too demanding of his time but this is too much, he calls me , he is really nice when he is around, and has been after this friendship when he is changing, or maybe he is not so interest in me anymore ... anyways i need a deep breath
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  @charlie i said bye and hang up....

  what i dont get is why to ask "permission" i mean, if i say no, i dont want you to go ... would he really stay? and if he does, would he be happy to stay ?? this is ridiculous ...... i am ridiculous, so is he and so is this relationship ................ and im mad hummmmmmmm
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  @charlie brown I asked for those who has been or are in a long term relationship the advice because of their perspective of things in general not coz i think about my date as a long term relationship :P

  @silent scream I totally agree, when you want to be with someone you try to be with that person if you really think is special

  @hofeer these 2 friends are single and they dont like to hang out with the only girlfriend of the group.... i dont get it either, why i cant go with them ...

  I know he needs time out with his friends to have a beer or just relax with them , but why not to do this one evening , and do it the only day off he has Besides, when he called me asking "permission" i told him it was ok, that he should do whatever he wants to .... and i hang up on him....
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  Should i break up???

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.

  here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.

  we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?

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  Dudu

  I need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time. Here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... My boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends AGAIN all day to the beach. We dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up? should i talk to him about it? i feel that when a person wants to be with you you are a priority and you shouldnt ask for time... specially if you arent calling or texting all the time and if you give the other person the space ...
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  Man , i feel like a woman!!!

  by Dudu in

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  i like that song so much and i was thinking about myself.... im 29 and i took the desition to have sex with my boyfriend and ... man, i feel like a woman!!

  im enjoying it without guilt.

  i dunno if im right or wrong but at this point of my life i need this and im happy .

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  It is wonderful , thank you love2bworldly ........... It is special and sweet , i am glad i have made the desicion :)
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  I must admit, I sometimes wonder, what IF?

  by Greybeard in

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  what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?

  when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.

  there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.

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  Dudu

  hahahhaha no prob greybeard :)
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  I must admit, I sometimes wonder, what IF?

  by Greybeard in

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  what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?

  when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.

  there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.

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  Dudu

  No, after that convention i just stopped going to the meetings.... Dudu means beautiful girl in Turkish :P
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  I must admit, I sometimes wonder, what IF?

  by Greybeard in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?

  when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.

  there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.

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  Dudu

  yes i did :( i was even pioneering at that time , before the convention ... i did the math...lost generation=lot of time for the end to come, new ligth about toes=sense of urgency .... :S nonsense
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  I must admit, I sometimes wonder, what IF?

  by Greybeard in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?

  when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.

  there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.

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  Dudu

  I love this post! My waking up was with the generation thing plus the last new light about the feet and toes of the image ..... WTF i though ive been preaching something 20 years and now this ppl are telling me what??!!! :S
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  Man , i feel like a woman!!!

  by Dudu in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  i like that song so much and i was thinking about myself.... im 29 and i took the desition to have sex with my boyfriend and ... man, i feel like a woman!!

  im enjoying it without guilt.

  i dunno if im right or wrong but at this point of my life i need this and im happy .

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  Dudu

  Thank you Tim!!! I now understand how guilty i felt about everything all the time ... if i didnt make enough hours, if i had to miss a meeting, if i met a wordly guy and i liked him ooohhh my a long list of things... now i am just relax, i have my weekends back to spend with my bf, my family and friends or just to be lazy and stay in bed till late after a long week of work.. i must say that i enjoy a lot your posts Tim i admire your courage :) Send you kisses to you and your loved one :) Dudu