Well, I changed my mind and i decided just to ignore him,,,, guess what? He hasnt call me again. I think he just wanted to collect the monthly report card, no worries about my well-being :(
Posts by Dudu
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22I want to fade but ...
by Dudu ini need an advice.... has been 2 months since i went to a meeting and or field service, i received a call from an elder saying that he wants my monthly report , i dont know what to do coz he is been calling me for 4 days now i dont want to answer the phone, but at the same time i feel like just sending the report.
the question is, should i fade slowly or just stop ?
my family isnt jw only my mom is inactive..
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I want to fade but ...
by Dudu ini need an advice.... has been 2 months since i went to a meeting and or field service, i received a call from an elder saying that he wants my monthly report , i dont know what to do coz he is been calling me for 4 days now i dont want to answer the phone, but at the same time i feel like just sending the report.
the question is, should i fade slowly or just stop ?
my family isnt jw only my mom is inactive..
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Dudu
Thank you sooo much for all the advices ... I think my personality doesnt help here lol, i am super polite and i dont like to ignore ppl, but all of you are rigth when you say that I am not obligated to talk to him . Anyways, I will send him an email telling them ive been busy and i have nothing to report... ill keep you guys posted.
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I want to fade but ...
by Dudu ini need an advice.... has been 2 months since i went to a meeting and or field service, i received a call from an elder saying that he wants my monthly report , i dont know what to do coz he is been calling me for 4 days now i dont want to answer the phone, but at the same time i feel like just sending the report.
the question is, should i fade slowly or just stop ?
my family isnt jw only my mom is inactive..
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Dudu
I need an advice.... Has been 2 months since I went to a meeting and or field service, I received a call from an elder saying that he wants my monthly report , i dont know what to do coz he is been calling me for 4 days now i dont want to answer the phone, but at the same time i feel like just sending the report. The question is, should i fade slowly or just stop ? my family isnt JW only my mom is inactive.
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Sept. 15th WT - Burdened with Earning a Living? Here! Have MORE Burdens !
by flipper inas if the other sept. 15th wt thread i started weren't controlling enough - in another study article titled " run ..... that you may attain it " were you aware that just eating and wearing clothes on your body - might be a " stumbling block " to you ?
in a prior article on pg.
12 , paragraph 6 the wt society sets up what they are trying to get across by stating, " people of the world tend to seek personal interests first as " men of this system of things, whose share is this life.
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Dudu
As i posted before ... i am doing good at work and starting my own business, my jw mom is paranoic about it, always looking down at my achievements, always saying i will become a selfish and proud person if i have financial success...
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My JW Mom. Master of spin and denial.
by Open mind ini moved away from the area where i grew up many years ago.
i'm 3rd gen jw and so is my wife, but we're both awakened now.
for the last couple decades, i've periodically received updates from my jw mom on how various people in her part of the world are doing.
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Dudu
thumbs up dear .....
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My JW Mom. Master of spin and denial.
by Open mind ini moved away from the area where i grew up many years ago.
i'm 3rd gen jw and so is my wife, but we're both awakened now.
for the last couple decades, i've periodically received updates from my jw mom on how various people in her part of the world are doing.
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Dudu
Remind me my mom ..... I am doing really good at work and im starting my own business BUT as im not attending meetings im not doing ok according to ,,,, her
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What Actually Made You Leave The Organization?
by minimus inmany of us needed time to get away from this religion.
i took the course of fading and it's worked pretty well for me.
after i saw sooooo many silly rules being enforced, i needed to get out!.
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Dudu
Few things ... after the DC of this year, the new light about the end ... the new generation, annointed elders coming out of the closet after years and years of being gay ..... and of course, this wonderful website :)
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Great news and attitude ..
by Dudu ini had a great news at work, i will have few more responsabilities and more money !
:) also, i am starting a new business and i have a couple of clients already, so, i was telling this great news to my jw mom and she told me : dont get too proud of your financial success... be humble , remember is all jehovah's blessing .
i agree that good things are happening to me now, but is also the result of my hard work and responsability, and according to my jw mom i cannot be proud of it??
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Dudu
Yeah mrsjones,, it will be better that way, she was never concerned about what i really think or feel , so i dont see why or how that has to change. Now she is just concerned that i am leaving the org ...
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What's The Worst Thing About Being A Witness?
by minimus infor me, a jehovah's witness does not have a real life!
jw's are like trained soldiers.
they could be fervent or lax or happy or unhappy in their role but they are trained to drone on like stepford wives.. what an utter waste of an existence being a jehovah's witness!.
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Dudu
I agree with meeting junkie nomore"" isnt about being greedy or selfish, but to really live, not only live for the future and put everything on hold ...
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Great news and attitude ..
by Dudu ini had a great news at work, i will have few more responsabilities and more money !
:) also, i am starting a new business and i have a couple of clients already, so, i was telling this great news to my jw mom and she told me : dont get too proud of your financial success... be humble , remember is all jehovah's blessing .
i agree that good things are happening to me now, but is also the result of my hard work and responsability, and according to my jw mom i cannot be proud of it??
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Dudu
I have always helped her financially, with my success i was thinking to raise the help i give her but due to her attitude i will just continue helping her as usual and thinking more about my own needs .... I am starting to feel free :)