i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.
here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.
we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?
@charlie i said bye and hang up....
what i dont get is why to ask "permission" i mean, if i say no, i dont want you to go ... would he really stay? and if he does, would he be happy to stay ?? this is ridiculous ...... i am ridiculous, so is he and so is this relationship ................ and im mad hummmmmmmm
i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.
here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.
we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?
@charlie brown I asked for those who has been or are in a long term relationship the advice because of their perspective of things in general not coz i think about my date as a long term relationship :P
@silent scream I totally agree, when you want to be with someone you try to be with that person if you really think is special
@hofeer these 2 friends are single and they dont like to hang out with the only girlfriend of the group.... i dont get it either, why i cant go with them ...
I know he needs time out with his friends to have a beer or just relax with them , but why not to do this one evening , and do it the only day off he has Besides, when he called me asking "permission" i told him it was ok, that he should do whatever he wants to .... and i hang up on him....
i need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time.
here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... my boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends again all day to the beach.
we dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up?
I need advice specially from those wise women and men from this forum, who has been in a relationship for long time. Here is my situation, i am dating a guy for 4 months now and everything was going smooth, but since a month ago , he is been going out with some friends.... My boyfriend only has 2 full days off during the month , every other sunday, last day off he went all day with his friends to the beach and i was ok with that, but today he is calling me to ask me if i am ok with him going with his friends AGAIN all day to the beach. We dont go out that much and maybe we go out one time a week and is for dinner or something like that, i dont think of myself as clingy but i dont like this pattern...... should i break up? should i talk to him about it? i feel that when a person wants to be with you you are a priority and you shouldnt ask for time... specially if you arent calling or texting all the time and if you give the other person the space ...
i like that song so much and i was thinking about myself.... im 29 and i took the desition to have sex with my boyfriend and ... man, i feel like a woman!!
im enjoying it without guilt.
i dunno if im right or wrong but at this point of my life i need this and im happy .
It is wonderful , thank you love2bworldly ........... It is special and sweet , i am glad i have made the desicion :)
what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?
when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.
there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.
hahahhaha no prob greybeard :)
what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?
when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.
there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.
No, after that convention i just stopped going to the meetings.... Dudu means beautiful girl in Turkish :P
what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?
when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.
there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.
yes i did :( i was even pioneering at that time , before the convention ... i did the math...lost generation=lot of time for the end to come, new ligth about toes=sense of urgency .... :S nonsense
what if the watchtower stuck to their guns and didn't change the "generation" understanding?
when they came up with this totally ridiculous "overlapping generation" concept, i knew something was wrong.
there are people still alive who lived in 1914 today, they could have stuck to their guns or went with genesis 6:3, "after that jehovah said: my spirit shall not act toward man indefinitely in that he is also flesh.
I love this post! My waking up was with the generation thing plus the last new light about the feet and toes of the image ..... WTF i though ive been preaching something 20 years and now this ppl are telling me what??!!! :S
i like that song so much and i was thinking about myself.... im 29 and i took the desition to have sex with my boyfriend and ... man, i feel like a woman!!
im enjoying it without guilt.
i dunno if im right or wrong but at this point of my life i need this and im happy .
Thank you Tim!!! I now understand how guilty i felt about everything all the time ... if i didnt make enough hours, if i had to miss a meeting, if i met a wordly guy and i liked him ooohhh my a long list of things... now i am just relax, i have my weekends back to spend with my bf, my family and friends or just to be lazy and stay in bed till late after a long week of work.. i must say that i enjoy a lot your posts Tim i admire your courage :) Send you kisses to you and your loved one :) Dudu
i like that song so much and i was thinking about myself.... im 29 and i took the desition to have sex with my boyfriend and ... man, i feel like a woman!!
im enjoying it without guilt.
i dunno if im right or wrong but at this point of my life i need this and im happy .
thank u mrsjones .... thank u mr flipper
