How can you forgive an abuser while they are still abusing? The WT is a vile corp who keeps hurting people I care about. Until that stops, the forgiving can't start.
Ironically, since waking up to the reality of the WT, I have since been able to forgive many JWs in my life, let go of many personal resentments I didn't even know I had. It is not the JWs, it is the Corporation they follow.