TNIB: We have been friends for 4yrs now but at first she didn't bring up religious meanings until she realized that we didn't share the same beliefs.
OK, that just doesn't make any sense at all!
How could you possibly be friends for 4 years and she not know you weren't a JW? That's just not possible.
First, as I said before and as Blondie confirmed with a few WT quotes, it'd be disobedient to WT "Theology" and practice for a JW to even associate with someone that isn't a JW let alone be friends. It would be odd for you to know each other for 4 days without the subject coming up let alone for 4 years.
Since you don't apparently know this, let me clue you in: JW's don't "share the same beliefs" with any other religion.
TNIB: When I do win a debate all she does is say "I'll research it" and never brings it up again.
Do you want to win debates or have a friend? Generally the two are mutually exclusive.
Something about your whole account just doesn't smell right.
Either your friend is being dishonest or you are.
The only thing, and I mean THE ONLY THING, that could possibly explain this is that your "friend" really does NOT want to be a JW and is leading a "double-life" 1 by befriending you. If that's the case then you could possibly show her the door out of the cult. What I mean by that is that by showing her that people that are not JW's are normal, good, kind and loving people you will be opening for her a door of understanding that has previouslyb been nailed shut.
She has been taught all her life that you can NOT have a wonderful, fulfilling life outside of the organization known as Jehovah's Witnesses. On the other hand you have the opportunity to prove to her the real truth. She can leave the WT and she will not die, go crazy, worship Satan or become a drug-addict that has to sell her body to make a living.
Reality, what a concept!
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1 - "Double-life" is a JW expression which, when translated into normal English, means that a cult member is basically a normal person when they are NOT with fellow JW's, but when they with other JW's they pretend to be True-Believers.
Of course, JW's would say that it is the exact opposite of this, but they do that with a lot of words.