Hi Cassandra,
Welcome to the board. Such a nice name, when I was in jr. high I wished that I had been named Cassandra--I wanted the nick name Cassy.
There are several people here with circumstances similar to yours, some may even post after their morning cup of coffee. I am a nonJW married to a now inactive JW. My husband's family are JWs and his sister is married to a 3rd generation JW, so I can sort of imagine what it is like when one marriage partner makes changes regarding his/her faith.
I don't know if you have checked out the Personal Experiences forum or not, but you can find the backgrounds of several people there.
Once again, welcome,
Michelle
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