Dear OneDIBFree,
Going after her was classic! I have been married a long time, my husband has never once come after me.
It is what girls want, and what most men do not understand. Did she see you coming after her?
If she did, good, later when she finds out real life, she will come back to you sorry, or be sorry she never came back.
You can't worry about it, you did what you could when you had the chance, get on with your life. Keep on being a
good person, that is about all you can do. God bless you.