Dan:
Although i don't know the entire situation, this chickie sounds like she may be "leftover" hypersensitive possibly? STAY AWAY....she's trouble for ya, dude. Because that conversation (if you interpreted it correctly) was fairly innocent. It makes it really hard for people who've actually had serious harrassment prove their point with frivolities such as this one. (p.s. i'd start documenting all interactions with this co-worker, THIS INCLUDES EMAILS).
Native