Sure I liked staying home some Saturdays and watching Spiderman cartoons, BUT, I never, ever, ever, ever, ever, [is that enough to get my point across?] ever missed birthdays, x-mass, etc etc etc.
When I was a child there was no Saturday or Sunday morning cartoons to stay home watch but I still would have rather stayed home rather than go in the field service. On a Sunday my father would generally get stuck on the first or second door for the full hour while i had to be ready with a smile on my face to hand the householder an invitation to the Sunday talk which we knew they were unlikely to attend. Often this was in cold weather and i would have blocks of ice for feet by the time we left and then got a telling off as i didnt look interested in the conversation at the door. I was preschool.
My parents would generally go out on Christmas day and so would take us kids with them. I can remember calling on kids homes that I went to school with. Although I got a long with the kids at school this wasn't something I enjoyed doing, calling at their homes on Christmas morning.
My parents didn't believe in having present days, too much like Christmas. Therefore I didn't get presents at least nothing in wrapping paper. I got a pen when I graduated from junior high from my parents, that was it for gifts. My older sibling can remember when my parents did celebrate Christmas and their excitement the night before on Christmas eve. There was no excitement like that in my childhood. I can remember going to my grandparents house after Christmas day with a lot of my cousins there and dreading the thought that should Christmas be mentioned or gifts or anything to be ready to give some sort of witness and my father didn't like mistakes.
I'm not a kid anymore and it was years ago but truthfully I can say I didn't enjoy my childhood and I certainly didn't enjoy the meetings or field service and loathed the assemblies.
As for joining the theocratic ministry school. I hated giving every talk I ever gave and I gave quite a few over thirty years. When I joined I don't think they had bible readings. I think it was a short talk. I wouldn't have joined had my father not suggested it. It was best to heed his suggestions. As a young teen when I was baptised I remember being at the kingdom hall one Sunday and thinking how much I hated the thought that one day I would have to be an elder. Thankfully I was able to avoid it.
If you are an adult and feel you had a deprived childhood, grow up and get over it.
I didn't subject my children to the same childhood as I had. When I was a witness and we had children I didn't take them to the assemblies, to sit for hours listening to things they wouldn't understand. Field service was brief and meetings were shorter and at one time when they were young we didn't take them in the week as they were tired. They grew up fine.