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  Why do Jehovah's Witnesses churches have no windows?

  by Kenneson in

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  someone asked columnist phillip milano of the jacksonville, florida times union this very question.

  you will find remarks of several individuals and the reasons they offer, ranging from deterrence to vandalism, to saving on air conditioning bills, etc.

  even j.r. brown gives his two-cents worth and replies to critic paul blizzard.. http://www.jacksonville.com/tu-online/stories/080106/enm_4104779.shtml

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  i live in germany and all halls here new or old do have windows, so this might be only the case in the usa
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  Just a quick jw question

  by nevaagain in

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  okay, i got this thing going on.

  i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.

  i know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.

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  nevaagain

  again thanks guys for your helpfull replies :-)
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  Just a quick jw question

  by nevaagain in

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  okay, i got this thing going on.

  i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.

  i know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.

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  nevaagain

  yea thats what i have thought, thanks undercover. i have to think about my decision now...
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  Just a quick jw question

  by nevaagain in

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  okay, i got this thing going on.

  i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.

  i know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.

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  nevaagain

  yes i know the watchtower world according to the opposite sex...
  
  i am 25 and she is 20, and yes she loves somebody else, and yes she is playing around with me as much as i play around with her. Why she plays around with me even though she loves somebody else? Well thats still what i have to find out. Why i play around with her? I used to "love" her but not anymore and i do it just for this relationship experience.
  
  why do i still want to stay in? i still believe that a god exists, i believe that the bible is the truth and i do believe that the wts is as close as you can get.
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  Just a quick jw question

  by nevaagain in

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  okay, i got this thing going on.

  i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.

  i know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.

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  well maybe i am too naive but i still believe that we havent done anything wrong yet, i could be wrong though. what would an elder or exelder have to say about our topic?
  
  i guess i should take the advice seriously and end our activities. well, leaving the org is not an option for me...
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  Just a quick jw question

  by nevaagain in

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  okay, i got this thing going on.

  i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.

  i know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.

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  okay, i got this thing going on. i already posted something about it a few weeks ago.
  
  I know i am on a thin line and i know i could probably get df'ed if i continue my path, but i dont think i want to leave this org yet.
  
  Anyway, so me a baptized brother and a baptized sister kinda have a relationship going on. We started to go out alone and have long phone coversations almost everyday. Which of course, for itself is not a sin.
  
  Well, for the last couple of days things went overboard. She started visiting me and we would cuddle, the next day we would kiss and the very next we would kiss (always with tongue) and touch eachother on "varius" places. Even though i havent seen her breasts yet, i touched them under the skirt. As for her other place, i only touched it over the jeans, but i made her come.
  
  I dont know where to draw the line and i bet i already crossed it. Do i have to report myself (ourselfes) or am i still okay? We havent had sex yet ...
  
  Thanks in advance for your advices
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  Do current JW members frequent this room?

  by Rooster in

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  i thought they taught that the internet is bad... a product from the devil.. association with worldlies.. maybe even so called apostates.

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  yea i am lurking for several years now, but i dont feel like leaving. you might be right about all your assumptions about the wtc.i dont question anything but i still believe the truth lays somewhere there. plus i dont even think my life would be better as an ex-jw. i know i might get flamed here but thats just what i believe and life as a jw isnt as bad as some people here make it to be. i dont even want to pull anybody back into the wtc. i just enjoy reading the messages here. everyone here has his opinion and so do i ...
  
  oh and something else, if leaving the wtc alters your behavior as to some people here on this board then i may never leave :-)
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  Just something i have to get off myself

  by nevaagain in

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  hello guys, first of all i am a jw.

  i think my last and only post on this board was a couple of years ago when i wasnt active at all.

  in the mean time i got better, i might not be as active as i should be, but i still try to do my best.

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  well i have this feeling that it could lead to something which is wrong in the eyes of God, hence all the time we spend together alone plus all the flirting which is going on from both
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  Just something i have to get off myself

  by nevaagain in

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  hello guys, first of all i am a jw.

  i think my last and only post on this board was a couple of years ago when i wasnt active at all.

  in the mean time i got better, i might not be as active as i should be, but i still try to do my best.

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  nevaagain

  yeah i know i might get hurt in the long term ... thats why i was seeking for advice here. i thought i might not see things clear and yes i will let the smoking go. its not my business ... the last time i tried to get away from her she said she doesnt wants to lose me as a friend ... girls can be weird sometimes :-) especially the ones in the truth ...
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  Just something i have to get off myself

  by nevaagain in

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  hello guys, first of all i am a jw.

  i think my last and only post on this board was a couple of years ago when i wasnt active at all.

  in the mean time i got better, i might not be as active as i should be, but i still try to do my best.

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  nevaagain

  i guess i wasnt unspecific, the whole kissing and hugging stuff happaned just yesterday. the confession that she likes another dude was 2 weeks ago. this doesnt have anything to do with the confession that she smoked. that was just a site note. i would never go to the elders and "rat out" because this girl does not love me. that was just a question on whats the official word on that point is.