Billy, great comment. I concur - what it is about being gay that is a habit. I have more than a few habits, some are related to what I like regarding sex. However, sexual orientation does not constitute a habit. It constitutes who you are.
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Kicking the "Gay Habit" at the IC
by breakfast of champions inheard from a reliable source that this was part of friday's program.
they even interviewed a "former gay man" who "kicked the gay habit".. evidently kicking the "gay habit" is difficult, not unlike quitting smoking or avoiding sugary snacks.
the persons who related this to me found the whole thing to be laughable at best, but honestly seemed quite disturbed by it (which is good!
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New Leaflet to give to JW about TTATT
by TJ Curioso inhi to all my fellows "apostates" in all world... especially in e.u.a.
and uk.. as some of you already know, ex-jw in portugal created a leaflet especialy to send to jw in all the country (individualy or to congregations).
we must say that it was a sucess from the point of view of the impact originated.
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Looks great, I am curious why you do not include 1975 in the floating dates around the head of the person in the pix.
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Involved with a JW woman
by jonza inokay so i'm dating a born-in jw woman, she's younger than me and has no kids.
i'm a christian man whos divorced with 2 kids.
we're in love and seriously want to be together.
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Best wishes to you and your partner's success. You have an interesting road ahead. This my first scan of this topic, and I am totally fascinated by the comments and your commitment to success.
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The Venting Thread
by minimus inthis thread is for you to vent about anything (within guidelines) that you want.. i'll start.. i'm sick of people who complain about how cold the weather is and then you have two 85 degree days and now they can't wait till autumn!.
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NewYork44M
I got my own stinkin problems - my vent is people that vent with the expectation that I care.
While I understand that your life may not be perfect, keep in mind that I got my own stinkin problems, so don't expect a lot of sympathy from me.
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Posted in wrong topic area
by SG098 inhello admin,.
i posted a thread in personal experiences and reunions called "when i decided to no longer turn in time.
" apparently i don't read directions well and posted it in the wrong thread.
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NewYork44M
You made a very bad mistake, based upon the rules of the thread you must send $100 to each person that responds to your thread.
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Would God (Jehovah) really choose lying and corrupt religious Charlatans like the Watchtower Corporation ?
by Finkelstein inthe watchtower publishing house has been going strong now for over 100 years, publishing numerous.
books and magazines, many which are now out of circulation.
many of the doctrines created by this.
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I would really like to believe in god - and I really did try. But to believe in a god - and that this person chose a specific group to lead (what I haven't not quite figured that out) at a specific arbitrary date - is well beyond anything I can grasp, even if I could get the god thing.
So in the mean time I will continue to lead a happy life, and cherish it as if it was a gift from god. I like gifts, by the way.
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"Hello from Phats"
by phats inhay out there.. wife got back from her thursday meeting & now she's setteled down with the dog, a v large g&t (maid be me) & watching terminator 2 on the telly with her ipad on her lap looking up places to go for our holiday (& googling symptoms of to many antibiotics as my 16 year old is getting signs of ibs).
so now is a good time to say hello.. well hello.
my name is phats & i'm an ex jehovah's witness.. there, i've said it.. this must be like it is going to your first aa meeting.. i've already used up some of my posts for a newbe but i'm not in to the whole long story thing.. basically i've been out now for 8 years (mentally out for all but four or five of those years of my life when i made the commitment, got baptized & married.).
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Welcome Phats, you are a great story teller. I look forward to many posts from you.
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IS Science Absolute Truth
by seekchristonly inif we have faith in science and scientific claims about the universe, origins of life etc.
is that absolute truth.
if so then if they declare that god exists with evidence then do all those who believe in science then believe in god or a creator.
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I'm not knocking science. Something is good until it is not...
James, science is a process of discovery. I am not sure you are talking about the process, or the results of various experiments and inquiries.
If you can come up with a better research method and design, let me and the world know.
If you want to question the results - that is acceptable - and encouraged. Just be prepared to justify your questions with an alternative hypothesis.
Debating scientific discovery is fun and actually moves research forward.
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Books that changed your life-
by new hope and happiness ini am not much of a reader as i have two many distractions, but i fancy a challenging read, so please list any book that has changed your entire world view on everything.
i remember as a teenager buying at a yard sale, norman vincent peales " the power of positive thinking" and at the time that had a big impact on me.
but i am a little bit more in to " realistic positive thinking" now..
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NewYork44M
Nonjwspouse, the tea party has given Ayn Rand a bad name. There are good people who appreciate here writing. It really did make a difference in my life.
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Disfellowshipping - The 10 year rule?
by Gembean inis it true there is a 10 year rule?
i was reading on here when i saw someone quote it?
i've never heard of it before!.
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NewYork44M
Gem, I hope my comments did not give the impression that I am discounting your struggles. It sounds like you have gone through hell. If it is meant to be that you should speak to these folks, I can assure you that it will happen. But I hope you don't go back just to complete a relationship that was not meant to be.
Just this week I connected with a person that I have wondered about. Keep your facebook available for those who might be interested in how you are doing.
Good luck