I love this topic. I was an elder for 2 decades. Last 4 years were the "awakening".
Now i would never say it was to much work, I loved public speaking and I was very good at it, that was not work. JC's were tough but I always was looking to help people, so that wasn't horrible.
The stress came in form:
A. watching elders to stupid things not based on love or the bible, and harm people for no good reason.
B. the insanity of rules rules rules that made everyones live harder.
C. 90% of the stress came when I realized it was all BS but still had to play my part till I had a fade strategy. Being and meetings and hearing the compete BS, contradictions, misinformation, baseless points of view, people rooting for 7 billion people to die... became to much. I needed to go home and have a drink after every meeting, and I spent the day dreading having to go.
I was able to step down using all "legitimate" reasons (depression - responsibilities) - said the concluding prayer and all that....
Well people started to distance them selves from me and my family. (so much love).
Happy for that - but so ANTI- what JWs are to be.
I feel that a large amount of the Elders that step down due to Stress/Depression/Exhaustion... are really ones who have WOKEN UP to some degree, and want no part of the mess any more.
" I think only the bullies and egomaniacs in the BOE's can survive...but is this the way the flock wants to subject themselves to the loving care of the GB?"
ABSOLUTLY AGREE!!!!!
All those who have NO power in their lives want to RULE it over those at the hall!