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  our secret dating got caught...

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  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  well that's how I feel like at the moment.
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

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  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Hello all. Thanks for your comments, She has always told me that she will always stay in the truth and that she tries to follow all the rules of watchtower conduct, but the dating rules never seemed appealing to her. I am her first boyfriend and she truly believes that I was given one to her and Jehovah's response to her prayer for her spouse. We both have never got into a trouble at Kingdumb hall, so don't really know what's about to come to us and she is worried cause we have gone beyond the limits many times tbh. Due to two witness rule, I told her just deny it, but I know it is not going to work since we exchanged our names together and she knows which congregation I am going to now. I make things up well, so I am confident to get out of situations from elders, but my girlfriend is a raised JW and very delicate so we can't expect her to do the same. She is afraid of losing her family relationship and therefore wants to wait for me until I become baptized if that old lady speaks and her parents find out that we have been secretly dating behind their backs for awhile. I gladly don't have any friends,family,and relatives that are witnesses who are going to shun me. I have been taking my study and working towards baptism very seriously, but all suddenly this situation makes me question myself like "why jehovah would not allow two people to be together when they found something beautiful". I believe in Jehovah, but makes me question many watchtower doctrines that talk about dating rules. My girlfriend agreed with me on that two people need to spend time alone without chaperone to get to know each other better even though she was raised a JW. I don't care if I get kicked out of Kingdumb hall after all this pressures and shits that they have been giving to us because I have been living most of my life worldly and it has been only about on year that I started getting involved in JW life. But, my girlfriend is not and since she was raised as JW and she is typical JW girl who has very delicate mind and it just concerns me a lot that how her parents especially and her friends would all react because all her friends are mostly from congregation as well.
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
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  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Brandnew/ I am not baptized yet, but she is. is that what it is going to be happened? Any chance that I can be with her during the meeting?
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  I am feeling so frustrated. guess we will have to wait to see till sunday..
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Elder's wife saw us, so I believe it is a matter of time that her parents will hear about it after meeting on Sunday. Her parents told her many times do not contact me in anyway, and I don't know what they will do to her when they find out she has been secretly dating me for a quiet time. I am ready to be there for her and told her many times that I will always be there for her, but also worried how she would deal with all emotional conflicts from parents and friends from congregation.
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Zana / being a JW was my decision before I met her so it wasn't just for her. I have believed in different religion with my parents, but didn't really get into and after quiet research, truth appealed to me which made me to study and attend meetings, but I have also felt many doubts about truth during our relationship. Not doubts about Jehovah God, but some of watchtower conducts and teachings in dating about why we always need to be chaperoned (prevent temptation I know, but still hard to understand sometimes cause I have been in relationship with several worldly girls before) and constant fear and pressure made me think "why we should hide our feelings when we both know its real and deep". She is not a reason for me to decide to become JW, but motivates me to work harder on myself as we will continuously face problems and oppositions until I am baptized and in a position to date her .
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Yes I have met her parents 3 times, but they told her not to see me anymore which led us do secret dating and I have been to couple social events with her friends from congregation when we were officially going out before we turned it into secret dating. My study conductor has no idea that I have been dating her and didn't feel like to tell him cause he once was an elder too, so I thought he would be more strict about it.
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Wouldn't they question about what we have done in our relationship??
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  I do believe and it was a reason why I have been studying, but thoughts of not being able to with someone that I love just because of my belief also makes me really upset... I am curious what would come to us especially to her since she is baptized and what I could do to be with her...
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Brandsnew/ what kind of problems would we face? I know holding hands is not crime, but we were not chaperoned..