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  our secret dating got caught...

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  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Brandnew/ I am not baptized yet, but she is. is that what it is going to be happened? Any chance that I can be with her during the meeting?
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  I am feeling so frustrated. guess we will have to wait to see till sunday..
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Elder's wife saw us, so I believe it is a matter of time that her parents will hear about it after meeting on Sunday. Her parents told her many times do not contact me in anyway, and I don't know what they will do to her when they find out she has been secretly dating me for a quiet time. I am ready to be there for her and told her many times that I will always be there for her, but also worried how she would deal with all emotional conflicts from parents and friends from congregation.
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Zana / being a JW was my decision before I met her so it wasn't just for her. I have believed in different religion with my parents, but didn't really get into and after quiet research, truth appealed to me which made me to study and attend meetings, but I have also felt many doubts about truth during our relationship. Not doubts about Jehovah God, but some of watchtower conducts and teachings in dating about why we always need to be chaperoned (prevent temptation I know, but still hard to understand sometimes cause I have been in relationship with several worldly girls before) and constant fear and pressure made me think "why we should hide our feelings when we both know its real and deep". She is not a reason for me to decide to become JW, but motivates me to work harder on myself as we will continuously face problems and oppositions until I am baptized and in a position to date her .
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Yes I have met her parents 3 times, but they told her not to see me anymore which led us do secret dating and I have been to couple social events with her friends from congregation when we were officially going out before we turned it into secret dating. My study conductor has no idea that I have been dating her and didn't feel like to tell him cause he once was an elder too, so I thought he would be more strict about it.
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Wouldn't they question about what we have done in our relationship??
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  I do believe and it was a reason why I have been studying, but thoughts of not being able to with someone that I love just because of my belief also makes me really upset... I am curious what would come to us especially to her since she is baptized and what I could do to be with her...
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  Brandsnew/ what kind of problems would we face? I know holding hands is not crime, but we were not chaperoned..
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  I had to edit it cause I thought I put everything in, but it got cut off..
  
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  our secret dating got caught...

  by trueloveneverfails94 in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  we both are 21 years old.

  we both are 21 years old.

  i am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher.

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  trueloveneverfails94

  We both are 21 years old.

  We both are 21 years old. I am almost done with my study and working on to become one of an unbaptized publisher. my gf is baptized and is doing special pinoeer this month. We love each other deeply and believe that we are meant to be together in many ways. We have been secretely dating for 3months and everything was good except several suspicions from her sister till today. We were talking to each other at a coffee shop in the morning and we were holding our hands together on the table while waiting for our drinks. There was one lady who was continuously looking at us with frown upon her face (my gf didn't see her first cause she was standing behind her I guess) and she turned away when I looked at her. My gf then saw her and told me that she needs to go say hi because she knows her. the lady approached me later and asked my name and which congregation I go to. She was a wife of an elder at her congregation. Nothing has happened yet, but we both are afraid what is about to come to us. I have never regret about becoming a JW regardless of oppositions from parents ( I can't tell them because they are oppose to JW and believe in other religion) , but thinking of not being able to see her drives me crazy and I feel lost and can't stop questioning myself about my decision being JW for the first time thinking that I can't even love someone in a way that I want to when I love her with all my heart.. I need support ...