so my mam visited today.
she recently went to convention in north east england, newcastle i think they still have them at.
before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "you have put me in a difficult position and i can't come to see you anymore".. she told me that as i live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore.
Bluesbrother - thanks, I guess that is where it comes from then. Perhaps some will take it to mean all former members too. But as outlaw mentioned it may not last long once the convention boost has worn off!!
Xanthippe - my partners family are around and just like normal ggrandparent etc so that's good.
so my mam visited today.
she recently went to convention in north east england, newcastle i think they still have them at.
before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "you have put me in a difficult position and i can't come to see you anymore".. she told me that as i live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore.
Saying it's my fault must make it easier from her point of view. I'm thick skinned so can handle it but it's still sad that it has got to this point.
For the record I'm not df or da, I just left a long time ago. I don't think I will lie about been married either, although that was a good suggestion! Lol
I wonder if they have been told to shun all inactive ones.
so my mam visited today.
she recently went to convention in north east england, newcastle i think they still have them at.
before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "you have put me in a difficult position and i can't come to see you anymore".. she told me that as i live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore.
That's brilliant!!
Sadly sand time was cut short by rain, good old england lol
so my mam visited today.
she recently went to convention in north east england, newcastle i think they still have them at.
before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "you have put me in a difficult position and i can't come to see you anymore".. she told me that as i live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore.
My door will always be open as life is too short to be bitter. What I found funny was she said if we got married that would fix the problem.
She didn't suggest going back to jw land. If this is a strategy to get people back I don't think it's going to work!! Not that I would have.
so my mam visited today.
she recently went to convention in north east england, newcastle i think they still have them at.
before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "you have put me in a difficult position and i can't come to see you anymore".. she told me that as i live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore.
So my Mam visited today. She recently went to convention in north east England, Newcastle I think they still have them at. Before she left she said (this is her exact words btw) "YOU have put me in a difficult position and I can't come to see you anymore".
She told me that as I live with my partner and we are unmarried that she can't visit anymore. This is following direction given at the convention. It's a good job my little one was there otherwise my reply would have been laden with expletives!
As always I stayed calm and said no problem. Apparently I am still allowed to email her photos of her granddaughter. What she doesn't get is I have to explain to my little one when grandma isn't coming. It's a real shame what this cult does.
I have possibly seen my Mam for the last time today. Unless they get new light of course Ha.
Anyway I am off to play with sand. Just needed to vent. At least my daughter will never know any of this garbage. No matter what I will always be there and part of her life. Take care all !!
hi, new here but have been lurking for a while.
some background first, i am from the uk, 3rd gen born in, dad, grandad elders etc.
17 years ago i left, no df or da just left, 18 years old and alone but i did it and have had no regrets.
my mom and i were talking today about how next summer i will be 18 and she said that just thinking about it might make her cry.
that made me think about how much more it would hurt her if i quit being a jw.
i really do love my parents, i know they are just being cruelly manipulated by a cult and that they really think they are doing what is best for me.
hi, new here but have been lurking for a while.
some background first, i am from the uk, 3rd gen born in, dad, grandad elders etc.
17 years ago i left, no df or da just left, 18 years old and alone but i did it and have had no regrets.
hi, new here but have been lurking for a while.
some background first, i am from the uk, 3rd gen born in, dad, grandad elders etc.
17 years ago i left, no df or da just left, 18 years old and alone but i did it and have had no regrets.
hi, new here but have been lurking for a while.
some background first, i am from the uk, 3rd gen born in, dad, grandad elders etc.
17 years ago i left, no df or da just left, 18 years old and alone but i did it and have had no regrets.
