Posts by nowaytess

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Billygoat got married!

by MegaDude in

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i went to a beautiful wedding today.

billygoat a/k/a andrea macelfresh was married to neil weathersbee (mozzer4life) in an outdoor ceremony overlooking a small lake.

the weather was perfect, the bride was beautiful, and andi and neil looked very happy.

nowaytess

I like to wish them a long and happy marriage! Good Lick guys and well wishes.

Love,

Tess

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

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i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

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friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

I agree with you on the point we should see a doctor. I trust them.

I turned to alternative therpies when all else failed. I was very fortunate my primary doctor did not pooh pooh it. In fact he montored me and I did listen to him.

The doctors Thought I had mutiple scrosis at one point in time. I was loosing strenght on the left side of my body.

My freind started telling me teh dangers of Nutra Sweet. I laugh at her at first. ThenI prayed about it. I used nutra sweet in a lot fo things especailly the iced tea I would make.

I stopped and the symptoms went away ASAP. I swtiched to my current diet and got better. My doctor told me to keep up with what I was going because it is working. I went to the Massachuutes General Hospital because my problems were very servere.

Your mom sounds she has a lot of problems. Most people who are into alternatives also have good primary doctrors whom we listen to.

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Louisiana...

by pomegranate in

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man...it doesn't look too good with the hurricane...

nowaytess

Trofax,

I lived in teh Lakeland area (Just moved 2 weeks before from Boston) when Andrew hit. We got some heavy rain and no damage. I lived just too far North.

Many of my friends were contractors who were allowed in to help with the rebuilding work after teh storm, Now they went down as soon as OK was given about 2 weeks. My firends were devistated by teh massive destruction.

My friends told me the true count of the dead was more than told. Those who were counted were those who citizen and people who had loved one looking for them. I felt many of the ollegals werenot in the number and those who are forgotten.

My advice, don't hang around!!!! GET OUT NOW!! Have a can of spray paint if you are a homeowner and just put the name of you insurence company spray painted on your house!

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

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i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

Swan,

I am a vegan vegitarian. I try not to eat eggs or dairy unless it is in a food which those prodicts have been processed. I try to east raw unrefined whole wheat foods with in reason. If I am out in mixed company I not neuorotic about my food, I won' t eat any flesh products which include chicken and fish.

I know a lot of people today who are afraid of those things which you describe.

Did you mom give you coffee enema's or enemas to clean you colon? It is now becoming more popular than ever.

I know of a Elders' Wife who is into macrobiotcs. health movement. she had a lot fo heath problems it help her. In fact her greater health inspired me. Years later when Iwas very sick, I tried a different concept and got off disablity. I did not call doctors quacks, but when the failed and wrote me off I tried another avanue.

Elders' wife told me she gave her two children (boy and girl) enemas until they were in their teens. I found this very creepy. I don' t see how this would affect a child neverless a teenager. sheclaims Native American clean their childrens colons with enemas. For me, for my mom to stick an enema up my ass I would have knock her out.

Maybe that is why the expression on their faces look like something was jammed inside?

I know the daughter tried to run away when she was 15 and he rbrother served at Bethel until he got married. The family was so close the psycologist call teh term "emeshed." When the daughter married a brother who lived far away in a big city( they lived in Colebrook, NH) the father offered him as a partner in his printing business. I found this very controllong and I know her father was a very controlling man.

How controlling was he? He moved to where the need was great and most of the elder body ws indebted to them for bringing them in the "Truth." Plus, when I told other how i felt he gave a marking talk on me. Plus he would tell me in fron to of other hewould never invite me to his house or out in a get together. His wife and kids are good people but Daddy was Daddy dearest indeed.

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

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friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

I can see I started a firestorm here.

Zev for purposes of this discussion they male had to have been pursued when he was a minor (under 18) Over 18 the law considers him a legal adult. My focus is child abuse not consenting adults who get involved in a realtionship.

Dakatoa Red I agree with you. It is thumbs up for a man who has an older woman who teaches him, but a younger female is being taken advantage of. That is why a female pedophile can hide her activity if her vicitim is in puberty. Just look at the media and how it seem ok for a teenage boy to have sex with an older woman who seduces him. Why can't anyone see she is a perpitratior who just know her vicitm will just think he was so willing because he is just expericeing stong sexaul feeling for the first time.

I don't think we die for our country unelss we are 18. If you are 18 or over then it is considered consenting.

Sadly as long as society see it this actiivity to be applauded not to be ashamed of the results will still be the same.

Claiming to be a christian organization and permitting this is just plain sick.

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

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friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

A lot of people are making my point here.

I don't see how healthy it can be for the for teens to be seduced by older women.

I have no problem if a younger man want to have a relationship with an older woman. There is a difference betweem two older adults having a relationship where the person have the time and maturity. I find it more disugsting when the boy is just a teen havig his first sexaul experice with a woman who may be old enough to be his mother.

There is very little stigma attached. In fact I am seeing it as a thumbs up.

I am also reading some very sad stories with consquences which are disaster. I feel for them and if the young man had the maturity to see what was going on was abuse.

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

jw
friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

I think you answer my question and made my point clear.

Liking older women was a result of your experice.

Also because you were 16 you looked at it as a conquest not a crime. I feel if you were a sister who was 16 and a 20 someting brother came on to you, it would be viewed more as staturoty rape.

Men are taught to accept this as normal sexual conquest and a thumbs up. Girls it is a thumbs down.

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

jw
friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

I feel the problem is on a grander scale than most of us relize.

I just feel when older JW woman have little to no prospect in the Organization. The pressure for them to marry JWS, this activity is more likely going to become more common place.

So may of these older women have their sites set on these young teen brother who have to compete with female teen sister whom young brother would be more appropiate to go after. Older woman have more experice than the young boys they are setting their sites on. So an molestation relationship is better than none at all.

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Sisters going after minor brothers

by nowaytess in

jw
friends

i know when it comes to pedophiles we are young girls or teenage girls who have been molested by men.. i know of 2 cases where a teenage boy is being seduced by an older woman in the congregation.. .

i know of one when i was a jw in my congregation.

she was 24 and he was 15 1/2 - 16 when they meet.

nowaytess

Animal,

Did you ever marry the sister? Was the incident ever reported? If it was did any action come out of it?

Was it a one time thing or a long term sexaul relationship?

How did you feel after a while?

Did she ever come on to you or you to her?

Looking back now, do you see it as child abuse?

Sorry I am asking suck upfront questions. I like to see the full scope of a more hidden problems for which the male teen victims have a much smaller voice.