I was shocked when I recently visited my JW family. The way they gossiped about and relished the hardships of their 'spiritual brothers and sisters'.
Hardly a kind word about anybody that I used to know.
I was remembering how one 'sister' used to be nice to us as teenagers, arranging get togethers and parties for young people, etc. I was then informed that she ended up marrying some guy that beat her all the time to the extent of hospitaliztion, etc, and she even was beaten badly enough once that her teeth were chipped.
My mom's comment was 'She may have been nice to young people but she just doesn't have a lick of common sense'.
Really mother?! Really!!??
Such joy!!!! I felt so 'discouraged (TM)' after hanging with the JW's again for a single day. They are a real downer. Fact.