Younger Tom
Never you mind about the real Tom. If I see his face I have a surprice for him. They will no longer be able to call him a Tomcat. He will speak with a voice several octaves higher.
We have a very simple and very effective security system in place. We meet in a public place. There is a secret code for recognising each other and anyone who wants to come needs to be known to the group which sends the invites, only then will you get the security keys and the time and place of the BBQ. Even then there is a system for those who get cold feet at the last minute.
Any non invited guests will either end up on the BBQ plate or end up in hot water with their Watchtower bosses. They will have to explain how they found out about it in the first place and what were they doing there?
Don't worry the system is proven and it works. You won't be the first one who has some concernes.
I hope to see you there, e-mail me or phone me and I'll explain how it works.
regards to the gang, Older Tom and The Missus