HS
have seen many XJW's who are complete dysfunctional wrecks due to their experience within the walls of the WTS.
LOG
I would say much more depends upon the individual
themselves.
I agreee with the later, many may have become "dysfunctional wrecks" anyway, jw or no jw.
During the last decade or so i have seen too many jw and nonjw people go "bipolar".... euphemism for crazy, schizophrenic or someone who could not confront reality, for whatever the reason. In the case of jw they can not face their jw reality: no paradaise, no money, hardly making ends meet etc etc
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There are many thing i dont regret about jwlearning from jw about cristmas is one of them
The jw were very open about cristmas, going against the "system" require some strenght and that in itself attracted many to the jw org.
It teached me not to accept anything at face value and to question just about anything.
I concluded at early age that anybody and everybody could be wrong. I have benefit all along from such early conclusion, thanks to the jw..
But for some reason I did not question most jw teachings... I did questions some teaching and rules long ago..
I think it was due to lack of references. The "messengers" that passed around some weak messages against jw lacked credibility, in the first place they beleived in cristmas, a celebration that have been proven to be "pagan". Anything I ever read or heard did not refute jw doctrines.
There many other things i consider positive about jw, dont you?.
On the other hand, as Ray Franz says in his books we are not free of blame for accepting unfounded jw teachings, the most we can say is repeat that we have been "victims of victims", but the victim is not always without responsability... but if feels better when the victim can totally blame someone else.