Update:
Well, mom's expenses have exceeded the amount I can PROVE Watchtower owes her.
The treasurers office REFUSED to put anything in writing and would not TAKE calls. They only called back at a random time to make a VERBAL statement they WILL NOT send ANY money because She had "forgiven the loan"...verbally. They refused to provide any documentation to that effect, and said "just put her on government assitance"!!!!!!!
I was amazed at how that rolled off the Bethelites tongue...like he says that every day.
We consulted with two attorneys. Both said whatever we win in court would simply be claimed by the state, and we would be stuck with legal expenses...and it might disrupt the government assistance. However, once she has died and the state comes looking to the estate for $$ for medical costs, to sick the STATE on WTBT$. They state has the resources to lein WTBT$ and we will not be out of pocket.
Moral of the Story for elderly- DO NOT LOAN MONEY or Make Conditional gifts TO WATCHTOWER...they will consider it "Corban".
After all they do say in the Feb. Awake "God helps those who help themselves" and they do.. "help themselves".