....and if all else fails, pull out her cult literature highlight the appropriate portions and start leaving them open lying around the house. When she starts ragging, pick one up and start reading it out loud to her....in effect.....call on the name of jehovah, as it were. Point out to her the consideration and respect you are due from the words of the very litterature she's claiming is bible based...and pour it on.
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sd-7's whining session 3-30-2010
by sd-7 inso...memorial tonight, eh?
yup.
sunday was a fun meeting.
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sd-7's whining session 3-30-2010
by sd-7 inso...memorial tonight, eh?
yup.
sunday was a fun meeting.
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Your wife needs a real life lesson....how she has pulled this shxt up to now is because you allowed it and are still feeling guilty.....you should..... for allowing this ridiculous behavior. Put your damn foot down. If she's home with one child, there is no reason she can't keep a house clean and laundry done.
Her words sound outrageous to me.
In case you are wondering, I come from a long line of independent women, but one thing I appreciate is a working man that earns enough for me to be home. I will never take that for granted and do all I can to make his life easier.
Equally as much is she owes you some g*ddamn respect and consideration when you get home...much more than a warm body to lie next to and a "there's your hot plate of food now shut the hell up and leave me along till it's time for meeting" passive aggressive attitude.
Being a housewife in this era is a PRIVILEGE that a ton of women would like to trade for. This womans attitude is atrocious.
Until this man put his foot down, this woman will never realize which side of her bread has the butter, because while I'm sure she's all aglow with the love bombiing she's receiving, if she started asking for long term housing assistance and money from the congregation or the WT organization they are going to tell her "go and be warm and well fed!".
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sd-7's whining session 3-30-2010
by sd-7 inso...memorial tonight, eh?
yup.
sunday was a fun meeting.
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It sppears to me that your wife is getting some perverse pleasure out of needling you, particularly about her request that you accompany her to meetings and her wanting to get there "early" so that she can socialize. Just what is she expecting from you in her quest to get you to spend so much time there. I can only imagine what it must be like to be there....basically a person-non-grata, an annoyance to be sure. She's also being, frankly and pardon my expression, a manipulative B*$%^ with her hot-cold emotional states, patronizing, and being equally as selfish as you think you were in not being clear about your conscious towards the religion in the beginning..
At this point, it appears that all you are is a paycheck and a place to stay to her.
This woman needs a kick in the pants not only for your sake, but for hers as well. I'm sure she's all aglow playing the victum card while she's with "the friends"......oh woe is me.... I got this DF'd husband.....see there he is right there!!!!! Taking sly looks at you out of the corner of their eyes, and patting her on the back while they bemoan her woeful state.
Please!!!!
I must say that your patience is of heroic proportions, but sooner or later, you're going to have have to draw that line in the sand and dare her to cross it. It's going to be an aweful mess for sure to be even worse the longer you wait.
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My mom's love for me is based on well I am doing 'spiritually'---
by QuestioningEverything inthis is the comment that my husband made to me this morning about his mom.
i felt terrible for him.
his childhood was very jw structured.
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The only people I know that are beholding to that nonsense are related only to me by marriage. They are all on my wife's side. My family hates the WT whore-ganization with a purple passion. so, if they said anything to me like that I wouldn't give a rat's ass.
As a matter of fact, if my wife every said as much out loud, as much as I love her, she might get her ass kicked to the curb as well.
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Going just to accompany the wife and make her day. Will not partake. Will respect their event just as I would demand they'd respect me and an event of mine if they were coming to my home.
It's just some crusty flat bread and very cheap wine that is no more symbolic of anything supernatural than a rock sitting in the sun anyway.
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Confess and you won't be DF'd!!! Puke alert!!!!
by Gill inwell, in nearly forty years of being a dub, i've read some bs but some of it really takes the biscuit.. take for example the watchtower of november 15th 2006!.
always accept jehovah's dicipline.
para 3 .
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You say that you're going to go inactive when you move out of your parent's house like you'll be needing permission to do so.
You will not.
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Facebook sex IS REAL.......and dangerous.
by dissed inhttp://www.foxnews.com/scitech/2010/03/26/we-dont-cause-vd-claims-facebook/?test=latestnews.
cases of syphilis have increased four-fold in britain thanks to facebook, argued a u.k. professor, as users meet up for unprotected sex.
can't wait to see this quote make the pages of the wt and the platforms of the conventions.
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Watchtower = using intellectually dishonest sensationalist stories to control people.
Foxnews = using intellectually dishonest sensationalist stories to make money.
A union between the two and you have the republican party and their rank and file members, the tea-baggers!!!!
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No Obamacare for Obama
by Yizuman inoriginally published 07:38 p.m., march 23, 2010, updated 08:21 p.m., march 23, 2010editorial: no obamacare for obama.
the washington times.
president obama declared that the new health care law "is going to be affecting every american family.
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I call bullshit on people who know they want Health Insurance, know that in the long run that they are going to possibly have a need for this plan, and are still bitching about it under the guise of states rights and government mandates.
If they, the republicans keep this up they are going to get their asses kicked in November and 2012.
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No Obamacare for Obama
by Yizuman inoriginally published 07:38 p.m., march 23, 2010, updated 08:21 p.m., march 23, 2010editorial: no obamacare for obama.
the washington times.
president obama declared that the new health care law "is going to be affecting every american family.
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Romney's also a republican that has enacted mandates in his own state.
Our own hick governeor Rick Perry in Texas tried, a couple of years ago to MANDATE that all teen girls take some type of vaccine that ws supposed to kep them from getting some type of cancer.
And now he's trying to sue to federal govt?
Which one of the many faces are the republicans going to show us tomorrow?
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No Obamacare for Obama
by Yizuman inoriginally published 07:38 p.m., march 23, 2010, updated 08:21 p.m., march 23, 2010editorial: no obamacare for obama.
the washington times.
president obama declared that the new health care law "is going to be affecting every american family.
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If you oppose the mandate so much, how about taking it up with the REPUBLICANS that wrote it, insisted it be a part of the bill and then backed away from their own idea like crabs running from hot water.