When my son made clear to me that he didn't want to go to meetings anymore, I made clear to my wife that the guilt tripping and coercive tactics she was using to force him to would stop. She was not happy, but, what could she do after i asked her how she would feel if, in front of all her witness friends, I dressed up the house for every holiday and used those same tactics on her to force her to participate?
He was only "strongly encouraged" to get his own place when he decided that he wanted to party with his friends all the time, stay on the internet all day, quit school, and disrespect my house by waking eveyone up coming in at 3 and 4 in the morning.
Sometimes, pulling out that "head of the household" card works.