The truth is he is/was too weak to actually go out and live the life he wanted. He is/was too lazy to go his own way and earn a living without the grift and his friends/marriage
This got me curious, what was his occupation when he lived in the UK, when he was a JW ?
i assume he must have worked at something at one time. After all, he has only been a novice elder for a short time and presumably the local BOE must have been satisfied that he was ‘of good repute’ and ‘not lazy’.
Anyway, just curious. What a drama-filled life he has made!