Broken,
You and my ex boyfriend should get together and talk! He feels very much like you. I know its hard for you to understand your girlfriends beliefs and with beliefs like hers well there is no way you can agree to disagree(trust me i know all to well). What you are trying to do is almost impossible to do. If she was going to let go of these beliefs she most likely would have already done so. To go against the beliefs JW's try to follow means possibility of not gaining everlasting life. Which is what active JW's are working to acheive. So if she has been raised in the truth, most likely the JW's core beliefs are the foundation to her belief system. Trying to change something that basic is as i said early almost impossible. Its something she will have to do. Love isnt enough in this situation, if it was my ex wouldnt be an ex. I hope this helps you understand your girlfriend better. Believe me when i say its not easy for her either. Best of luck to you.