So... gender is just a label, like your name?
Yes it is.
This week in the US, a teenage girl complained about a transgender woman, which is to say a man, walking around a girls locker room naked, and she was properly shamed and chastised.
So, if a man exposes his genitals to young girls, he is likely arrested, and put on the sex offenders list. However if he does the same thing, and claims to be a woman, well then he is praised as a beacon of progressiveness.
Got it now?