Blondie said " Keep it your resolve not to ignore the aha moments, the contradictions and hypocrisies thinking you have to wait until the boat catches fire before you jump ".
Wise words for those still in. I made exactly that mistake for years before I left. I was well aware that they used manipulative language, which I now identify as classic Mind Control , and used to give it a wry smile, thinking " Well, they have to do that ".
Now they are more blatant and obvious about it, but of course it works, along with the other Control techniques, keeping their members away from Information, and socially isolated to name but two.
I now see this , not as something " they have to do", but as downright Evil !