Posts by Phizzy

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Why is this an APOSTATE site?!?

by LaraK in

i made a big mistake when signing up at this supposed website for jehovah's witnesses.

after reading some things on this site it has become apparent to me that this site is nothing put another pathetic site for apostates: people who betrayed jehovah, left the truth, and are so bitter about their experiene in the truth, and they are angry just like satan because they know they will very soon be dead at jehovah's hand!.

this website should be renamed something more fitting like "satan's playground" or a similar name that would get across the message of your site.. sincerely,.

Phizzy

Just a couple of tips for people searching for educated information, the posters as follows were great, among many others :

Leolaia for background on the Bible writings and their origins and more ! Doug Mason for the same, Alanf for much on the false JW teaching and on some JW history, and from these Threads you can be led to those of other early posters, some no longer on here, who will give you much insight.

I still find it annoying, slightly insulting even, unless I use the epithet as a label for myself, to be called an " Apostate". JW's tend to use it to dismiss what you say without reading. They forget of course that they are all Apostates themselves ! using the word in the sense of "standing apart from" a former belief. The ever changing JW teachings mean that they have become Apostates to the former teaching.

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Why is this an APOSTATE site?!?

by LaraK in

i made a big mistake when signing up at this supposed website for jehovah's witnesses.

after reading some things on this site it has become apparent to me that this site is nothing put another pathetic site for apostates: people who betrayed jehovah, left the truth, and are so bitter about their experiene in the truth, and they are angry just like satan because they know they will very soon be dead at jehovah's hand!.

this website should be renamed something more fitting like "satan's playground" or a similar name that would get across the message of your site.. sincerely,.

Phizzy

"Why is it necessary to have a site like this?"

Because it is literally a Lifesaver ! I will give personal testimony on this.

Shortly before I actually left, I sank in to deep Suicidal Depression, and came so dangerously close to ending my life. Loving people on this Site begged me to seek Therapy, which I did, but would not have, having still got the JW thinking on the matter, my Therapist was brilliant, she had treated a number of ex JW's, so knew what she was doing.

This Site aided my recovery no end, I was gradually, again with the help of many a kind Poster, to get rid of all JW thinking, feelings, and of course, beliefs.

It was, particularly in those days, a very educational Site, (use the Search facility) some very erudite people Posted, and taught me about the Art of Critical Thinking, directed me to great books to read, and really clued me up on lots of things that as a a JW you are denied.

So, from the bottom of my heart, thank you Simon, Angharad, and all involved,especially those lovely people who took the time to help me !

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Thunderous Applause Around The Stadium

by Number 6 in

growing up in the 70's and 80's in the jw religion who remembers the massive stadium gigs the watchtower used to hold?.

we used to denounce false religion in the starkest of terms.

we were right and by god we were letting anyone who listened know it.

Phizzy

I am an Old Fart born in the early 1950's so have very early memories of Conventions, the eight day ones were hard for a young kid, and for this kids bum !

I remember Volunteering in the Food Service when I was about eight, got the job of washing up the Trays they served the slop in, stood out in the Sun way too long doing it, ended up with mild Sunstroke. Nobody told me to stop, take a rest in the shade or anything, until my mum came along, realised I wasn't too well, and took me back to my seat, oh yes, Happy Times !

I do remember the atmosphere, a sort of muted excitement, the camaraderie, and I remember in my Teens, when even then I had doubts, looking around and thinking, " All these people believe the same, they can't all be wrong", typical JW faulty reasoning, a bit like the Restaurant who advertised " We have the best food in Town ! 10,000 Flies can't be wrong !".

I think the whole thing now has got steadily more boring, and the "Spiritual Food" LOL, is now so puerile and has no depth, nothing to "get your teeth in to", just "same old, same old".

I do have fond memories, and there were many truly lovely people in the Org, but I was never truly happy in my whole life, until I left.

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Will You Constantly Wear A Mask?

by minimus in

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today, it will be 90 degrees and humid!

this morning i’ll be playing tennis again.

while most people have been holed up in their houses, i have regularly played the sport outside.

Phizzy

I will without doubt take mine off when i go to bed, so, no, not constantly.

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We Now See Who the Anti-Christ Is

by RubaDub in

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no further comment needed..

Phizzy

"When" Fascism comes to America ? "When" ? It is already at work in a powerful way among you, as it is here in the U.K and the rest of Europe.

O.K, we may label these creatures as Far Right Extremists, but it is proto-fascism. If they get in power fully, it will be full blown.

Trump, Johnson and a number of leaders in Europe are showing the traits that are typical of Fascism , i.e The State is the important thing, individuals do not matter, even if hundreds of thousands of them die, it is the State, and the personal power and financial interests of those in power that come first.

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New 5 Pages Letter On COVID-19

by thedepressedsoul in

i heard there was a boe letter released this week that was 5 pages on guidelines for covid-19.

in it it tells everyone to stay at home as much as possible.

does anyone have access to this?

Phizzy

Send a P.M to Petra, with your e-mail address, and you will get them. Just check your Spam Box, they went in to Spam for me !

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2020 Convention streamed

by Rattigan350 in

2020 convention of jehovah’s witnesses.

we warmly invite you to watch this year’s three-day convention presented by jehovah’s witnesses.

as a result of the novel coronavirus (covid-19) pandemic, this year’s convention program is being presented online at jw.org.

Phizzy

A guy in our congregation suggested decades go that they put the Assembly Programme on Video, and then we donate what we would have spent. He ran a small farm, so had animals to attend to from the early hours before he struggled to a Convention, so I saw his difficulty.

I thought at the time that Donations would really suffer if they did that, and I guess this will happen now, so I don't see this as being a permanent thing, but who knows ?

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Has anyone ever turn down being appointed an Elder or MS?

by Davros in

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has anyone turned it down or know of someone who did turn down being an elder or ms?.

yes, it should be one of the biggest privileges a brother can get !!

(how do i put the barfy icon in?

Phizzy

You have reminded me, U A, of what happened in our Congregation when the Elder thing was first brought in, only one guy accepted, and he was actually elderly, and one of the Anointed, the other "Servants" all felt they did not qualify ! This guy was a humble, really spiritual man, who cared for all.

When the C.O visited some months later, he persuaded the Servants that they were being too modest and self critical, so the P.O of the time, and a few others accepted. Others accepted in time.

I think, as in many other aspects, our guys were pretty unique in this, which made for a nice atmosphere in the Congregation, which caused many JW's over the years to move in from elsewhere. Nobody had a huge ego, until a young guy in his twenties, an Elder, moved in, he was different, a real by the Society Rule Book man, but constantly was restrained by the others.

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Has anyone ever turn down being appointed an Elder or MS?

by Davros in

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friends

has anyone turned it down or know of someone who did turn down being an elder or ms?.

yes, it should be one of the biggest privileges a brother can get !!

(how do i put the barfy icon in?

Phizzy

I turned down the offer to be an Elder a couple of times, not that I did not want the responsibility entirely, I certainly never wanted to be responsible for DFing anyone, but I hated the Politics, the obvious deference shown to Elders, which I saw as undeserved, and it generally being a Club I did not want to be a member of.

I also knew that I would take the pastoral work that Elders SHOULD do seriously, and having an exacting and tiring Job, plus kids to raise, I felt that I would get burn-out in no time.

I am glad I never became one, there is less guilt for me to carry, I have enough for simply being a JW for way too long.

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Resurrection, Reconstruction? What is it? It never made sense to me. Your opinion.

by Wasanelder Once in

i never had much faith in whatever resurrection was.

what appealed to me about jw doctrines was the rejection of the "it's a mystery" defense of the indefensible.

when i would ask how going into non existence could be reversed when all the atomic parts of who we are had been scattered for thousands of years, the answer was "jehovah can do anything".

Phizzy

What is required for the concept to actually seem reasonable to the mind, is a belief in what is called "Soul Sleep".

The problem for the J.W org is that because they do not know how to read the Bible in a Scholarly way, i.e, using proper exegesis to understand the writers thoughts, and take it all as literally as they can, they claim that as it says the Soul dies, that nothing of you lives on after death.

The idea that Big J contains in his big brain every one of your memories, which is pretty embarrassing in my case if true, still does not cut it as to believing that the newly created human is still really you, of course it would not be.

The usual muddled, ill-informed thinking here from the J.W org.