Major blowout with husband, in my heart I feel like I can't do anything else in this situation, if I stay I will continue to compromise what my needs are as a woman & wife.. when I open my heart to him where I am coming from according to him im always complaining, he won't see things in my perspective & never will it's been this way for a while, I don't feel I have the liberty of expressing myself to him without him getting agitated, defensive & upset without him acussing me of complaining & " talking sh#t", I've felt a sense of emotional isolation & lonleness in this relationship for sometime I'm afraid it's not going to change, I'm just being drag along with it, he says he's stress & each time I'm told "I'm causing him anxiety", I'm mentally exhausted.... this is soo hard to do but I've survived worse than this... I'm going to ask him to leave the house & file for divorce