available LOL hmm, i guess i'm just more a visual viewer of porn than you :P
peaceloveharmony
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Why Must Porn Actors Curse?
by AvailableLight inhttp://www.theonion.com/onion3815/why_do_porn_actors.html .
by maggie lehman .
like many people, i enjoy pornographic movies.
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ILLUSIONS
by QCA1 insorry i forgot to give you the web page then it is my birthday and the older i get the more forgetful i become.. thegreatillusion.com
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peaceloveharmony
it's your birthday today? well HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY QC :) hope you enjoy your day
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Why Must Porn Actors Curse?
by AvailableLight inhttp://www.theonion.com/onion3815/why_do_porn_actors.html .
by maggie lehman .
like many people, i enjoy pornographic movies.
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peaceloveharmony
well there is always mute too ya know. it's not like you need to follow the storyline to "get" what's going on :P
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Why Must Porn Actors Curse?
by AvailableLight inhttp://www.theonion.com/onion3815/why_do_porn_actors.html .
by maggie lehman .
like many people, i enjoy pornographic movies.
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peaceloveharmony
lmao :) thanks for bringing that here lololol
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Just a quick hello
by BoozeRunner injust popped in to say hello.
i have been offline for about a month, but expect to be back in the next week or so.
out of the sites i visit, i miss everyone here the most.
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peaceloveharmony
boozy! boozy!
wonderful to see ya :)
looking forward to your return.
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JW's relationship problems?
by Matty inthe relating to non-jw's thread made me think a lot about myself and where i am and what im doing now.
i have to figure out where im going wrong!
has anyone had similar experiences to me as far as relationships with non-witnesses are concerned?.
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peaceloveharmony
i want to add about emotional baggage, don't worry so much about that, fairly common in "the world" too :)
and connielynn, your saying "i had led a sheltered life" is a good way to break the ice about jw stuff. even saying, my parents are fundemental christians/i was raised in a fundamental house would work. most people know what that means :)
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JW's relationship problems?
by Matty inthe relating to non-jw's thread made me think a lot about myself and where i am and what im doing now.
i have to figure out where im going wrong!
has anyone had similar experiences to me as far as relationships with non-witnesses are concerned?.
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peaceloveharmony
matty,
sometimes I think that I'm just looking for some wonderful soulmate that will give me a reason to get out, and stop myself from sitting on the fence, because I'm too much of a coward to do it on my own.
you already have enough reason to get out. your freedom! your life! i know it's scary but you have to do it for yourself. you sound like you already know in your heart what needs to be done. now i'm not suggesting DA'ing yourself immediately due to family and friends still in but the slow fade has worked for many people here. maybe take a class on a meeting night that you'd always wanted to...
i'm enjoying all the comments on this thread. most xjws have to learn or fine tune social skills after leaving because as jws we never had the opportunity to practice them when we were suppose to be learning all this stuff, like in school!
i left the jws because i wanted to make my own choices, walk my own path and even though it's hard at times i'm sure glad i did it and wouldn't change a thing. i control my life now and it's a wonderful feeling (once the oh my god, what am i doing?? goes away hehe)
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JW's relationship problems?
by Matty inthe relating to non-jw's thread made me think a lot about myself and where i am and what im doing now.
i have to figure out where im going wrong!
has anyone had similar experiences to me as far as relationships with non-witnesses are concerned?.
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peaceloveharmony
larc, right, i do agree with you that in new relationships it might be something you want to leave alone until the relationship develops. i just got the feeling matty was talking about real friendships where you would be doing some sharing of this kind of stuff...all in all, it's up to you how much you want to share with people. i certainly don't introduce myself to new people by saying "hi, my name's harmony and i was a jehovah's witness" hehe :)
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JW's relationship problems?
by Matty inthe relating to non-jw's thread made me think a lot about myself and where i am and what im doing now.
i have to figure out where im going wrong!
has anyone had similar experiences to me as far as relationships with non-witnesses are concerned?.
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peaceloveharmony
i disagree larc, i've had the experience with my "worldly" friends that they do care and sympathize with me and the way i was raised. of course you don't want to talk about it constantly but your true friends will give you a listening ear and their understanding. most of my friends are amazed with some of the stories and teachings of the jws. with new relationships it might be a good idea not seem obsessed about your jw past but no harm in bringing it up with people you trust. being a jw (or xjw) is a part of who you are and i don't think it should be hidden or buried. matty, i'm not sure why people seem to run after you tell them about the jw thing, maybe they don't know how to react? learning social skills is not easy but it definately can be done. just be yourself. and anyways, who wants to be with friends with people who can't or won't sympathize and try to understand? venting here of course is great because you don't have to spend hours explaining the basic teachings and etc. but you will find people in the "world" that will listen too. best wishes to you in your journey.
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Can I DA myself in a newspaper?
by meat pie inwhat do you think of this idea, has it been done?
i was thinking that if i did decide to da myself, one fun way to do it might be to place a public notice in a regional paper.
something not libelous(unfortunately), just saying that i no longer wanted to be know as one of jws because i could not reconcile the discrepancies/divide between jws organization and the bible.
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peaceloveharmony
haha great idea! would be neat if a few hundred (or thousand) jws and exes ran a notice all on the same sunday