I think people are just coasting a long now, especially the younger generation. The older ones have invested too much time and energy to call it quits. From my own experience, i can see a number of ones a few years younger than me that are just waiting for their parents to die so they can stop going to the meetings. I look at my old KH and wonder who is going to be the next elders? There's very few young ones and virtually no young people are being converted.
Was speaking to my ex yesterday while we were taking our daughter to a hospital appointment. It struck me that i never noticed before how often she uses the phrase "we're not allowed..." or "are we allowed such and such?"
Allowed? You're a grown woman. Decide for yourself.